Genesis 2:24 (KJV): "Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be ‘one flesh.’
Many have overlooked the failure of marriage as far as the phrase ‘one flesh’ is concerned - the failure of making the two couples ‘one flesh,’ per se!
Question: Why does the union of a man and a woman in marriage turn them into a couple instead of ‘one flesh,’ as written in the bible?
The Failure Of Marriage In ‘One Flesh’ Issue
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Re: The Failure Of Marriage In ‘One Flesh’ Issue
Post #2[Replying to OneJack in post #1]
Even with "one flesh" being taken in a spiritual sense, how does biblical law declare that man and woman always remain one flesh when it allows them to divorce (Deuteronomy 24:1-3)?Why does the union of a man and a woman in marriage turn them into a couple instead of ‘one flesh,’ as written in the bible?
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Post #3The revealing truth continues to testify to us, at all times, that 'becoming one flesh' is not true based on the biblical verse because even in the material or spiritual realm, a married couple remains two individual flesh. So, it's a big mistake that is written in the Bible; not because God is wrong, but those who wrote the scripture are likely the ones who made the error, for reasons only they know, and God certainly knows.Athetotheist wrote: ↑Mon Mar 30, 2026 12:40 pm [Replying to OneJack in post #1]
Even with "one flesh" being taken in a spiritual sense, how does biblical law declare that man and woman always remain one flesh when it allows them to divorce (Deuteronomy 24:1-3)?Why does the union of a man and a woman in marriage turn them into a couple instead of ‘one flesh,’ as written in the bible?
If we observe carefully, in marriage, God gives a gift to the couple, and that is to have a child, formed from the man's sperm and the woman's egg, meaning 'one flesh' from two flesh that united - a result of intercourse. Whether or not the couple gets a divorce, they remain two flesh until death, and even in eternity.
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Post #4It indicates the level of closeness God wishes for us in marriage.
Marriage is the ultimate symbol of the union between God and man. God wants to be that close to us.
The fact of divorce and not being one flesh just reflects our sin nature. Celebrating our sin nature is what our society does. It's part of the ways of man.
Marriage is the ultimate symbol of the union between God and man. God wants to be that close to us.
The fact of divorce and not being one flesh just reflects our sin nature. Celebrating our sin nature is what our society does. It's part of the ways of man.
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Post #5Wow that's a whole bunch of claims. And not a single bit of support for any of them. Given that, they all can and should be ignored. At least you didn't attempt to use the Bible which isn't considered authoritative in this subforum. That is one positive.Wootah wrote: ↑Tue Mar 31, 2026 4:14 pm It indicates the level of closeness God wishes for us in marriage.
Marriage is the ultimate symbol of the union between God and man. God wants to be that close to us.
The fact of divorce and not being one flesh just reflects our sin nature. Celebrating our sin nature is what our society does. It's part of the ways of man.
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Post #6Even without divorce, the reality that the couple is still two individual flesh-and-blood people prevails over what is written in the Bible, don't you think? We cannot shift the meaning of 'one flesh' to the spiritual realm, because the couple remains two individual spirit entities when they die.Wootah wrote: ↑Tue Mar 31, 2026 4:14 pm It indicates the level of closeness God wishes for us in marriage.
Marriage is the ultimate symbol of the union between God and man. God wants to be that close to us.
The fact of divorce and not being one flesh just reflects our sin nature. Celebrating our sin nature is what our society does. It's part of the ways of man.
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Post #7Tcg wrote: ↑Tue Mar 31, 2026 7:26 pmWow that's a whole bunch of claims. And not a single bit of support for any of them. Given that, they all can and should be ignored. At least you didn't attempt to use the Bible which isn't considered authoritative in this subforum. That is one positive.Wootah wrote: ↑Tue Mar 31, 2026 4:14 pm It indicates the level of closeness God wishes for us in marriage.
Marriage is the ultimate symbol of the union between God and man. God wants to be that close to us.
The fact of divorce and not being one flesh just reflects our sin nature. Celebrating our sin nature is what our society does. It's part of the ways of man.
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Do you agree that the person who created the thread is asking for Bible interpretations for their thread?Question: Why does the union of a man and a woman in marriage turn them into a couple instead of ‘one flesh,’ as written in the bible?
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Post #8Have you seen anything in the bible, so far?Wootah wrote: ↑Sat Apr 04, 2026 12:09 amTcg wrote: ↑Tue Mar 31, 2026 7:26 pmWow that's a whole bunch of claims. And not a single bit of support for any of them. Given that, they all can and should be ignored. At least you didn't attempt to use the Bible which isn't considered authoritative in this subforum. That is one positive.Wootah wrote: ↑Tue Mar 31, 2026 4:14 pm It indicates the level of closeness God wishes for us in marriage.
Marriage is the ultimate symbol of the union between God and man. God wants to be that close to us.
The fact of divorce and not being one flesh just reflects our sin nature. Celebrating our sin nature is what our society does. It's part of the ways of man.
TcgDo you agree that the person who created the thread is asking for Bible interpretations for their thread?Question: Why does the union of a man and a woman in marriage turn them into a couple instead of ‘one flesh,’ as written in the bible?
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Post #9What do you think one flesh means according to the Bible verse you are using?OneJack wrote: ↑Tue Mar 31, 2026 8:22 pmEven without divorce, the reality that the couple is still two individual flesh-and-blood people prevails over what is written in the Bible, don't you think? We cannot shift the meaning of 'one flesh' to the spiritual realm, because the couple remains two individual spirit entities when they die.Wootah wrote: ↑Tue Mar 31, 2026 4:14 pm It indicates the level of closeness God wishes for us in marriage.
Marriage is the ultimate symbol of the union between God and man. God wants to be that close to us.
The fact of divorce and not being one flesh just reflects our sin nature. Celebrating our sin nature is what our society does. It's part of the ways of man.
If there was a creature that had two separate bodies moving around in the world would that be one flesh?
Proverbs 18:17 The one who states his case first seems right, until the other comes and examines him.
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Post #10I don’t believe in the ‘one flesh’ issue in the bible if the couple in marriage is the object and recipient thereof.Wootah wrote: ↑Sat Apr 04, 2026 12:55 amWhat do you think one flesh means according to the Bible verse you are using?OneJack wrote: ↑Tue Mar 31, 2026 8:22 pmEven without divorce, the reality that the couple is still two individual flesh-and-blood people prevails over what is written in the Bible, don't you think? We cannot shift the meaning of 'one flesh' to the spiritual realm, because the couple remains two individual spirit entities when they die.Wootah wrote: ↑Tue Mar 31, 2026 4:14 pm It indicates the level of closeness God wishes for us in marriage.
Marriage is the ultimate symbol of the union between God and man. God wants to be that close to us.
The fact of divorce and not being one flesh just reflects our sin nature. Celebrating our sin nature is what our society does. It's part of the ways of man.
That would be creatures, so to speak, not a one-flesh creature.Wootah wrote:If there was a creature that had two separate bodies moving around in the world would that be one flesh?

