DOES MATTHEW 5:28 MEAN HOMOSEXUALS ARE CONDEMNED FOR THEIR DESIRES?
No. Jesus was highlighting that all sin starts with unwholesome desires and inevitably leads to actions
if we do not make a constant effort to fight them.
MATTHEW 5 :28
But I say to you that everyone who keeps on looking at a woman so as to have a passion for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart
The verb in the original language was witten in the continuous form, so Jesus does not say that that anyone that looks at a woman (person) would be condemned but rather that anyone that
keeps looking. The point being we may not be able to control our initial reaction (or orientation) but we can avoid harbouring and nurturing wrong desires. (compare verses 29, 30). Whether homosexual or heterosexual, a Christian must struggle against lecherous thoughts but they are not condemned unless they give up that fight.
Unlike Jesus' words above, the context of Paul's words were not about the origins of sin but rather what measures Christians were authorised to take vi-a-vis each other. The subject is introduced in the context of lawsuits against fellow Christians. One does not go to court because of someone's feelings about us but because of their actions.