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How to prevent Christians from dropping out of the faith?
How to respond to Christians who have already dropped out of the faith?
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Just to elaborate on some terms and why I started this thread...
A Christian drop-out stems from the same idea of high school drop-out, in that both groups left something prematurely. The Christian drop-out leaves Christianity usually due to some problem or conflict that they encounter with their belief system and then they give up prematurely. I think most people are accustomed to hearing about and assuming that many atheists leave the faith based on rational reasons but then when I press them I find that many of the key factors that should be considered in the decision are missing. There tends to be a lack of proper understanding of God and the Bible, a lack of familiarity with Christian apologetics, and even on conducting research into their objections. As such, I tend to not spend much time answering their every objection and instead I help lay a foundation for them (in their thinking) where they can find the answers themselves because all the main problem boils down to is a problem dealing with doubt.
One recent example is of a former Christian who drew a negative conclusion about some aspect of Christianity based on an inadequate answer that their professor told them. Apparently, this person considered asking a teacher as being sufficient to deal with their doubt since their response came after my questioning of whatever research they've done on the matter. Ironically, this person dropped out of their class on religion. Notice here no real effort was put in to look for answers either because the person didn't know how and where to look or this person just gave up. This is very common sign/pattern of someone who doesn't know how to deal with doubt.
Christian 'Drop-outs'
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When certain atheists keep raising objections that inaccurately portrays Christianity then I can only presume that they lack an understanding of Christianity, philosophy, and science. Also, it's likely that this misunderstanding existed before they left Christianity and influenced their decision.JoeyKnothead wrote: I reject the notion that folks'd drop out of school "prematurely", as if they rejected education. That former Christians no longer play along with goofy, unfounded beliefs is a problem for the Christian who can't show he speaks truth.
For example, lets take your request of truth confirmation for Christian beliefs which is built on faulty expectations. The Bible contains biographies, history, ordinary and extraordinary experiences, non-literal genres, etc. Just how do you expect all of these aspects to be proven true? Do you expect that for all ancient writings? How can science deal with these matters? Isn't religion/experience necessary for the areas of reality where science is not adequate?
You see a lot of times it's seen as a virtue by skeptics to always request scientific or empirical verification, but in reality it's unreasonable when you consider the factors or questions that I brought up.
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There are good reasons for questioning and even rejecting conventional Christianity other than "misunderstandings" of the teachings of the Bible, the Church or historical and literary context.OpenYourEyes wrote:When certain atheists keep raising objections that inaccurately portrays Christianity then I can only presume that they lack an understanding of Christianity, philosophy, and science. Also, it's likely that this misunderstanding existed before they left Christianity and influenced their decision.JoeyKnothead wrote: I reject the notion that folks'd drop out of school "prematurely", as if they rejected education. That former Christians no longer play along with goofy, unfounded beliefs is a problem for the Christian who can't show he speaks truth.
For example, lets take your request of truth confirmation for Christian beliefs which is built on faulty expectations. The Bible contains biographies, history, ordinary and extraordinary experiences, non-literal genres, etc. Just how do you expect all of these aspects to be proven true? Do you expect that for all ancient writings? How can science deal with these matters? Isn't religion/experience necessary for the areas of reality where science is not adequate?
You see a lot of times it's seen as a virtue by skeptics to always request scientific or empirical verification, but in reality it's unreasonable when you consider the factors or questions that I brought up.
What evidence outside of "the Bible tells me so", for example is there to support the Church claim that "Jesus is God"? Even the Bible is contradictory on that matter alone, not to mention many others.
And hadn't we ought to establish first that the Bible is infallible and inerrant? And the Church?
Is there any evidence at all, for example, from science or cultural or archelological history to prove, in fact that "Jesus is God"?
And when a person starts questioning that notion, and does further investigation, and finds that even the Bible never says those three plain words that "Jesus is God" nor does it even ever have Jesus saying "I am God", can one be fairly blamed for becoming a "drop-out" from orthodoxy, if not from Christianity entirely?
Not to mention when one considers the other manifold errors and contradictions in the Bible, and even Church variance from the Bible?
Whether one can still retain one's theism, (as a Deist, a Christian heretic, a Jew, Muslim or in some other manner) or goes all the way into the arms of atheism is another matter.
My theological positions:
-God created us in His image, not the other way around.
-The Bible is redeemed by it's good parts.
-Pure monotheism, simple repentance.
-YHVH is LORD
-The real Jesus is not God, the real YHVH is not a monster.
-Eternal life is a gift from the Living God.
-Keep the Commandments, keep your salvation.
-I have accepted YHVH as my Heavenly Father, LORD and Savior.
I am inspired by Jesus to worship none but YHVH, and to serve only Him.
-God created us in His image, not the other way around.
-The Bible is redeemed by it's good parts.
-Pure monotheism, simple repentance.
-YHVH is LORD
-The real Jesus is not God, the real YHVH is not a monster.
-Eternal life is a gift from the Living God.
-Keep the Commandments, keep your salvation.
-I have accepted YHVH as my Heavenly Father, LORD and Savior.
I am inspired by Jesus to worship none but YHVH, and to serve only Him.
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What constitutes an inaccurate portrayal of Christianity?OpenYourEyes wrote: When certain atheists keep raising objections that inaccurately portrays Christianity then I can only presume that they lack an understanding of Christianity, philosophy, and science. Also, it's likely that this misunderstanding existed before they left Christianity and influenced their decision.

Christianity itself is a hodgepodge of disagreeing sects and denominations. Even the Christian Apologists can't agree with each other or convince each other. In short, there doesn't even exists a convincing Christianity. Catholicism and Protestantism reject each other, and the Protestants themselves consist of a myriad of disagreeing apologists/theologians.
The true wonder is why anyone actually believes in this religion at all.
The idea that there even exists a consistent and understandable Christian theology is seriously a joke.
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From Post 6:
Excuses for a lack of evidence are the pitiful arguments of the pitiful.
There ya go - attack, slander, slur, and libel anyone who rejects your stupid arguments.OpenYourEyes wrote: When certain atheists keep raising objections that inaccurately portrays Christianity then I can only presume that they lack an understanding of Christianity, philosophy, and science. Also, it's likely that this misunderstanding existed before they left Christianity and influenced their decision.
It is indeed faulty to expect the Christian to ever show he speaks truth.OpenYourEyes wrote: For example, lets take your request of truth confirmation for Christian beliefs which is built on faulty expectations.
I don't expect 'em to be proven true. I expect the honorable debater to not lie to us.OpenYourEyes wrote: The Bible contains biographies, history, ordinary and extraordinary experiences, non-literal genres, etc. Just how do you expect all of these aspects to be proven true?
I expect the claimant to show he speaks truth - regardless of how upset some claimants get when asked to show they speak truth.OpenYourEyes wrote: Do you expect that for all ancient writings? How can science deal with these matters? Isn't religion/experience necessary for the areas of reality where science is not adequate?
"It's unreasponable to expect me to show I speak truth, considering how much of it is I can't".OpenYourEyes wrote: You see a lot of times it's seen as a virtue by skeptics to always request scientific or empirical verification, but in reality it's unreasonable when you consider the factors or questions that I brought up.
Excuses for a lack of evidence are the pitiful arguments of the pitiful.
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Hmm ... human parthenogenesis and flying zombies ... I wonder why people keep misunderstanding.OpenYourEyes wrote:When certain atheists keep raising objections that inaccurately portrays Christianity then I can only presume that they lack an understanding of Christianity, philosophy, and science. Also, it's likely that this misunderstanding existed before they left Christianity and influenced their decision.JoeyKnothead wrote: I reject the notion that folks'd drop out of school "prematurely", as if they rejected education. That former Christians no longer play along with goofy, unfounded beliefs is a problem for the Christian who can't show he speaks truth.
For example, lets take your request of truth confirmation for Christian beliefs which is built on faulty expectations. The Bible contains biographies, history, ordinary and extraordinary experiences, non-literal genres, etc. Just how do you expect all of these aspects to be proven true? Do you expect that for all ancient writings? How can science deal with these matters? Isn't religion/experience necessary for the areas of reality where science is not adequate?
You see a lot of times it's seen as a virtue by skeptics to always request scientific or empirical verification, but in reality it's unreasonable when you consider the factors or questions that I brought up.
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I don't expect them to be proven to be true. All I need to do is recognize that they aren't even sensible at all. I have serious problems with the story of the "Fall from Grace" and it doesn't make any sense to me at all that any all-wise super-intelligent entity could be as utterly clueless and ignorant to behave as the God depicted in these ancient barbaric fables. To the contrary, the behavior of the God in these fables appears to be precisely as ignorant and unwise as the barbarians who wrote these stories. Thus providing me with evidence that the Bible was indeed written by ignorant barbarians, and not some all-wise God.OpenYourEyes wrote: For example, lets take your request of truth confirmation for Christian beliefs which is built on faulty expectations. The Bible contains biographies, history, ordinary and extraordinary experiences, non-literal genres, etc. Just how do you expect all of these aspects to be proven true?
All ancient writings don't claim to be speaking for a supposedly all-wise God whilst making extremely ignorant accusations and claims about this supposedly all-wise God.OpenYourEyes wrote: Do you expect that for all ancient writings?
No, religion is not necessary and many atheists have already proven this to be true beyond any shadow of a doubt.OpenYourEyes wrote: How can science deal with these matters? Isn't religion/experience necessary for the areas of reality where science is not adequate?
I personally don't require or ask for scientific evidence for the Bible. To the contrary we already have scientific evidence that the Bible is necessarily false in all of it's claims. So science has already proven the Bible to be false claims.OpenYourEyes wrote: You see a lot of times it's seen as a virtue by skeptics to always request scientific or empirical verification, but in reality it's unreasonable when you consider the factors or questions that I brought up.
However, on top of the scientific evidence that the Bible is false, I can also clearly see that it necessarily has to be false because it portrays a supposedly all-wise, super-intelligent and supposedly benevolent entity to behave in totally unwise, and ignorant ways that are far from benevolent. So even if I didn't have the scientific evidence that the Bible is false, I would still need to reject it on the obvious grounds that no intelligent super-entity could be as stupid as the Bible requires.
The fallacy of the Bible is, IMHO, 100% certain.
Some people will argue that we can't know anything with 100% certainty, but I hold that this itself is a misguided and false notion. We can indeed know that with 100% certainty there there cannot be a whole number solution to the square root of 2. And as far as I can see, the Bible has proven itself to be necessarily false to that same level of certainty. It simply cannot be true verbatim as written. And even Christian apologists and theologians openly confess to this. Only extreme fundamentalists like Ken Ham believe that the Bible is 100% infallible and true verbatim as written literally.
But the vast majority of Christian theologians and apologists have already given up on trying to hold that position as being anywhere near reasonable.
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I know since the 1800s, a school of thought referred to as 'liberal theology' has sought to eliminate some of the fundamental/traditional interpretations of the Bible but I don't see one school of thought (liberal vs traditional/fundamentalist) being any better than the other inherently. I would only judge on a case-by-case basis based on the best biblical exegesis for a particular passage.Elijah John wrote: There are good reasons for questioning and even rejecting conventional Christianity other than "misunderstandings" of the teachings of the Bible, the Church or historical and literary context.
Elijah John wrote:What evidence outside of "the Bible tells me so", for example is there to support the Church claim that "Jesus is God"? Even the Bible is contradictory on that matter alone, not to mention many others.
And hadn't we ought to establish first that the Bible is infallible and inerrant? And the Church?
Is there any evidence at all, for example, from science or cultural or archelological history to prove, in fact that "Jesus is God"?
And when a person starts questioning that notion, and does further investigation, and finds that even the Bible never says those three plain words that "Jesus is God" nor does it even ever have Jesus saying "I am God", can one be fairly blamed for becoming a "drop-out" from orthodoxy, if not from Christianity entirely?
Not to mention when one considers the other manifold errors and contradictions in the Bible, and even Church variance from the Bible?
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Re: Christian 'Drop-outs'
Post #15[Replying to post 1 by OpenYourEyes]
The one topic that I didn't press my teacher on, at the time, was why no female priests in Roman Catholicism.
This is not me saying that I simply never talked with my teacher about any other aspect of Christianity.
I expect an apology on this, because you made it seem like I was a person who dropped classes, when in fact, I never have.
Actually no, that answer my teacher gave me was NOT a factor in my leaving the religion. Perhaps next time you can ask?One recent example is of a former Christian who drew a negative conclusion about some aspect of Christianity based on an inadequate answer that their professor told them.
Now where have I EVER said I was a drop out of classes? I dropped the RELIGION, but not my academic classes.Ironically, this person dropped out of their class on religion.
The one topic that I didn't press my teacher on, at the time, was why no female priests in Roman Catholicism.
This is not me saying that I simply never talked with my teacher about any other aspect of Christianity.
I expect an apology on this, because you made it seem like I was a person who dropped classes, when in fact, I never have.

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[Replying to post 6 by OpenYourEyes]
When I encounter these sections of the Bible that we simply cannot verify, I realize that I cannot justify having a positive belief that they are true. What evidence is provided that would justify my believing that Satan did have a bet with God over Job, that horns were used to blow down a city's walls, that Jacob wrestled with God?The Bible contains biographies, history, ordinary and extraordinary experiences, non-literal genres, etc. Just how do you expect all of these aspects to be proven true? Do you expect that for all ancient writings? How can science deal with these matters? Isn't religion/experience necessary for the areas of reality where science is not adequate?
You see a lot of times it's seen as a virtue by skeptics to always request scientific or empirical verification, but in reality it's unreasonable when you consider the factors or questions that I brought up.

Your life is your own. Rise up and live it - Richard Rahl, Sword of Truth Book 6 "Faith of the Fallen"
I condemn all gods who dare demand my fealty, who won't look me in the face so's I know who it is I gotta fealty to. -- JoeyKnotHead
Some force seems to restrict me from buying into the apparent nonsense that others find so easy to buy into. Having no religious or supernatural beliefs of my own, I just call that force reason. -- Tired of the Nonsense