How can a disbeliever be a "loved one" of a believer?
To me to love someone is to accept them for who they are, flaws and all. If I have a child and that child disowns me or chooses to follow another religion rather than my own, I will still love them, because that's what love is. That child is still my own flesh and blood.We Muslims are fond of telling our loved ones: "I love you for the sake of Allah". That which bonds believers together in mutual love, compassion and brotherhood is their shared belief in La illaha ila Allah (there is none worthy of worship except Allah), and nothing else. If someone whom I loved were to apostatize from the religion of Islam (God forbid), I would definitely be very hurt and disappointed. I would also lose all my respect and love for such a person.
So are the quotes above standard amongsts Muslims?
Is your love conditional on others believing as you do?
Would you suddenly not love someone because they rejected Allah?
How can Muslims seriously claim their religion to be one of love with a philosophy like this?