Lostsoul wrote:lol she is 17, and i am almost 19. not creepy. and ive considered it. she is just as willing to try to keep us together as i am.
we do consider this an experience for us both, not just me looking to "hook up", and, at the college i attend, most "chicks" arent worth my time. im happy where i was at.
i just wanted to know outside opinions on how to hand the situation.
for the time being, me and her have decided to wait until december to try and start again, because we just cant seem to get through to her parents im not sick, or illegal.
i admire the help McCulloch
I've given you my opinion. You are legal, she is not. End of story. Her parents are right. Sometimes, people are right, and you are wrong. deal with it.
She is in highschool, you are not. She will(hopefully) attend another University, not yours.
Branch out. It's not about "chicks", its about 70 years down the road. I know you think she's the one, and she thinks you're the one, but, please, don't play the odds. They are not only NOT in your favor but ensure a heartbreak for one of you.
But, who ever listens to advice?
Go on and tell her parents to fuck off.
You owe it to yourself as a man, and whatever Faith you have, and to her, a human being who deserves a mate with some balls.
Oh, and get ready for a visit from the police, Sicko.
GROW UP!
edit: BTW, I want to put this in perspective for you, Sicko.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_A._Bennett
John A. Bennett (died April 13, 1961) was a Private First Class in the United States Army who was convicted of the rape and attempted murder of an 11-year-old Austrian girl. He was an inmate at the United States Disciplinary Barracks, Fort Leavenworth, Kansas. After President John F. Kennedy personally reviewed and approved the death sentence imposed by the court-martial, Bennett was hanged, the last person to be executed by the U.S. Military as of April 2008.
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Having sexual relations with any person under 18 is considered RAPE. (And how will you prove you didn't touch her privates?)
From TODAYS NEW YORK TIMES:
WASHINGTON — When the Supreme Court ruled last week that the death penalty for raping a child was unconstitutional, the majority noted that a child rapist could face the ultimate penalty in only six states — not in any of the 30 other states that have the death penalty, and not under the jurisdiction of the federal government either.
HOWEVER!!!!!!:
A military law blog pointed out over the weekend that Congress, in fact, revised the sex crimes section of the Uniform Code of Military Justice in 2006 to add child rape to the military death penalty. The revisions were in the National Defense Authorization Act that year. President Bush signed that bill into law and then, last September, carried the changes forward by issuing Executive Order 13447, which put the provisions into the 2008 edition of the Manual for Courts-Martial.
Get ready to hang, Sicko.
Edit2: My wife has told me that I may have been callous, tactless and mean-spirited. In fact, she had a number of choice phrases that I won't repeat.
All I mean to say, and embed in your mind is this: She is a Minor. You as a legal adult are responsible for your actions (real or perceived).
However, if you started dating while you were both minors, the law would probably be forgiving or compassionate - (Something I apparently lack in this case, according to my life long love, who I met when I was 31).
I don't mean to insinuate you are a pathological sicko, just that Society has rules, wrong or right, and you WILL abide by them - as evidenced by my recent tete-a-tete with the Fed, aka, the Man.
Imagine the people who believe ... and not ashamed to ignore, totally, all the patient findings of thinking minds through all the centuries since the Bible.... It is these ignorant people�who would force their feeble and childish beliefs on us...I.Asimov
Like 3 day's and 3 nights = 36 hours?
