Not invited to church friends wedding

[poehlerfan]

I am so upset, this friend from church is having a wedding and
they have deleted me from Facebook and they only way I found out she was engaged was by a mutual friend. So I am pretty sure I wont be invited to the wedding even though this is someone I have known for years from church. And I just want to know why I wasn't invited, and I suspect it may be because of a falling out I had with her sister where she yelled at me for wanting to crash this other mutual friends wedding a few years ago. Would it be rude to just ask why I wasn't invited and make sure it wasn't because of this and she hates me?

[WinePusher]

I am so upset, this friend from church is having a wedding and
they have deleted me from Facebook and they only way I found out she was engaged was by a mutual friend. So I am pretty sure I wont be invited to the wedding even though this is someone I have known for years from church. And I just want to know why I wasn't invited, and I suspect it may be because of a falling out I had with her sister where she yelled at me for wanting to crash this other mutual friends wedding a few years ago. Would it be rude to just ask why I wasn't invited and make sure it wasn't because of this and she hates me?

Just leave it alone. You're probably right, she probably doesn't like you anymore because of the falling out you had with her sister. If anything just send her a text saying that you're sorry and you hope the wedding goes well and that you wish you could be there and then leave it at that.

[otseng]

Sounds awfully similar to this post:
http://debatingchristianity.com/forum/v ... p?p=677151

[OnceConvinced]

[Replying to post 3 by otseng]

That's what I was thinking!