My Wife is Crazy.

[Scrotum]

Im a jealous guy, really, i had years of problems with irrational jealousy towards my partners, i still do to some degree, but i manage to
learn and behave better now, But my current wife on the other hand, Is Crazy. I will supply you with the phonecall i JUST recieved from my dear Wife.

This is how the call STARTED, just to note.
-RING RING- (Me answering)

Mrs Scrotum: You cheat me with Chinese girl!!!
Mr Scrotum: Eh? What Chinese Girl?

Mrs Scrotum: At [HOTEL NAME WHICH WE USUALLY STAY IN KL], i know you have contact with her.
Mr Scrotum: Are you crazy? First, I only care about my pregnant wife, second, why would i waste 25 ringit for making a 2 min call to some girl in Malaysia when my wife gives me anyhing i want?

Mrs Scrotum:..... I know you do i know you do. Maybe you sleep with European girl!!!
Mr Scroum: I only sleep with my wife Sayang, stop this now, im to tired.

Mrs Scrotum: I only jealous because i love you so much. I am afraid someone will take you away from me.
Mr Scrotum: No one will sayang, I love you.

Mrs Scrotum: I love you honey, i miss you so much, i want to [SAYING LOTS OF SEXUAL THINGS WHICH WOULD BE CONSIDERED DEVIANT IF JOHN HAD ANYTHING TO SAY ABOUT IT]
Mr Scrotum: I miss you to Sayang, go to bed and sleep now ok? You need rest.

Mrs Scrotum: ok I love you honey. [SMOOTCHES AND KISSES]

-CLICK- (Hangup)



Now, is this normal? And this is not even close to regular behaviour, she literally told me she left me once, you know why? Because my Phone broke and she could not call me for 10 hours or so. And this
was at the same time i called her from ANOTHER phone. She have this clear policy that I dont love her if she cant call me whenever she want. CRAZY is one word.

One point would be that i am considered to be a very handsome guy, especially in Asia where most guys and girls hit on me. I had Taxi drivers (male) turn around hitting on me when i have been with woman. Very strange indeed. In Europe its quite less i should add, Usually i am very popular in Asian area and North America. And in Scandinavia its very very different. Oh well.


I dont even know why i share, i just feelt compelled to.

[McCulloch]

Normalcy does not co-exist with pregnancy. Try to be with her as much as you can, by phone if you cannot be there in person. Do whatever you can to determine what makes her happy (it is difficult at this stage) and do it. Unreservedly. You'll have enough time to sort it out and make sense of it later.

Oh, and do not under any circumstances let her know that you think she is crazy until your child is old enough to retire.

[sue]

Scrotum,

Thank you for sharing a part of your private life.

Well, it's an anxiety disorder. Fairly common. Seperation anxiety. Probably she had something happen in her past that makes it difficult to trust people. That really doesn't make it OK for her to take it out on you, if you've done nothing wrong. But if she's made aware of it and you're both willing to be patient and work on it, all will be well.

I truly wish you the best of luck.

[Scrotum]

Normalcy does not co-exist with pregnancy. Try to be with her as much as you can, by phone if you cannot be there in person. Do whatever you can to determine what makes her happy (it is difficult at this stage) and do it. Unreservedly. You'll have enough time to sort it out and make sense of it later.

Oh, and do not under any circumstances let her know that you think she is crazy until your child is old enough to retire.

Since her pregnancy she´s goten worse and worse. And the best part of it is of course the "you going to leave me because you think im fat and ugly", his from a girl most people would crawl the gravel for (my wife is objectively very very beautiful), and i even told her so many times that i am even more attracted to her when she´s pregnant (a dr told me its either that or the opposite to some people). But for me, im both sexually very very attracted to her when i know she have our daughter/son in her belly, as well as i love her even more.


Sue:

Thank you for the kind words. Yeah i heard of all the different "ways" and "stages" they can go through, and i have this jealousy issue to, but not to the same, and not irrational level she´s got, atleast i try to be logic about it

[kiwimac]

As the Father of three 'actual' kids and of several who miscarried. There is no such thing as a 'normal' woman during pregnancy. Their hormone levels are all over the place, often peaking an troughing as much as a half-dozen times an hour.

Just reassure the lass and be sympathetic .... oh and take LOTS of prozac!

Kiwimac

[Cephus]

That's extremely normal. Pregnant women are a bundle of hormones, they're often emotionally out of control (some a lot more than others), they get paranoid, etc. Just reassure her a lot and things should be fine.

[StephTrex1]

Well when we women are pregnant we are less secure than any other time. We feel the weight makes us unattractive. your wife is perfectly normal about her feelings. some women act the way she does being insecure, and well we others feel that if our man can not behave while we go through the 9 months to give him/ Us a life, then he is not who we would want around for a roll model for that life anyway...