Thank you to otseng for providing this forum and thank you all for being a part of civil discussions about religion. My name is sue, how do you do?

I was raised Roman Catholic and my father required me to attend church as long as I was a part of his household. When I moved out at the age of 19 I stopped going to chuch, and I let go of whatever tenuous religious beliefs I had at that point.
Joined the US Air Force at the age of 22.
Married at 23.
Divorced at 25.
Have been reading about buddhism for the last 4 years in an attempt to erase some of the mental fallout from my conflict-oriented family and the military.
Now at the age of 34 I'm involved in a software project and there have been a series of strange coincidences that have got me thinking a lot about deistic religions.
This seems like a good place to learn more.
-sue