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The Bible and Minority Rights. Gays and Women.

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We have a thread in C&A regarding Christianity and Women's rights, several in fact.

A very recent one. http://debatingchristianity.com/forum/v ... hp?t=10796

This one started lst November. Greatest I Am quotes from I Timothy.


Timothy

2:11 Let the woman learn in silence, with all subjection.
2:12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to use authority over the man: but to be in silence.
2:13 For Adam was first formed; then Eve.
2:14 And Adam was not seduced; but the woman being seduced, was in the transgression.
2:15 Yet she shall be saved through childbearing; if she continue in faith, and love, and sanctification, with sobriety.
Here is one defense of Christianity by a member of the Fundamentalist group.
Allie wrote:I believe that women are equal to men. I also think that women can teach, hold authority over men, etc. I understand and have read what the Bible says on this subject.

I believe that there are principles under every commandment. These principles, when reading the Bible, are what I take away. Sure the Bible says clearly that women are under men, but that was in a letter to a church in a very different culture and time. Our culture today doesn't have anything close to that point of view. Back then, women were worth very little. It was disrespectful for a woman to have her head uncovered, or to talk in church. After they became Christians, women realized they were free in Christ, and it was true, but Paul was saying that we should not be a stumbling block for others. These women were hindering the gospel--not helping it. He was saying, in essence, "Be respectful! Don't divide the church!"

In our culture, saying that women are under men would hinder the gospel. If God wrote us a letter, I do not think he would tell us that women are under men, because that would definitely alienate people. I know it made me angry the first time I read it. However, now I believe that the principles need to be taken away: Don't divide the church, and respect one another.

Here, the case is made that we can ignore the biblical teaching because of a wider principle, another biblical teaching, takes precedence. Specifically, we can ignore the biblical teachings that consider women second class citizens because, in our culture, doing so would hinder the spread of the gospel.



From later in that same thread, here is another explanation which seeks to deflect the actual teachings of the Bible, again by trying to make the case that another teaching or principle takes precedence.
TMMaria wrote:
catalyst wrote:

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Why go off on the bible when there's countries out there who treat women worse?



Well biblical concepts were the introduction OF this chauvanistic, mysogynist attitude.. THAT's why.

The WHY men would be chauvinistic and mysogynistic is because they selectively interpret the Bible with a narrowsightedness that erroneously justify their "lording" and "ruling" over women. We expect this kind of "chip of the old block." Sons of Adam took after the first Adam who stood by and allowed his wife to fall into the corruptive deception of an enemy stranger, then freely, willingly joined her in taking a bite of the yummy fruit and later cowardly used fingerpointing to lay the blame on her.

But the New Adam, Jesus Christ, taught them the servant leadership of washing each other's feet; when she's thirsty give her water...especially the kind of water to satisfy her to the point she'll never be thirsty again...love and respect her as He, Christ the New Adam, loves, and He stretched out His arms on the cross and died to show how men should love their wives.

If all men should love their wives as Christ loves, it matters not who is in the position of leadership...for He is there to serve and to love. The least shall be first, the first shall serve the least.

But as is, men continue to fail in imitating after the New Adam and continue to live in the Dark Age of the old Adam. They continue to lord and rule and abuse their women, and so the struggle for equality of the sexes and human rights in humanity continue to the end of times as long as there are men still yoked to the sins of Adam....and neglect to learn the Truth that Christ teaches to set them free.


Now, I do not necessarily disagree with the notion that some biblical teachings should take precedence over others, especially as I don't consider the Bible to be one self-consistent work. I do not subscribe to the notion that today's Christians need to follow archaic teachings that were given to ancient cultures in a different context.



I also do not want to oversimply and imply that those quoted above are generally representative of Christian views, even conservative Christian views.



However, I would like to suggest the following questions for debate:



How would members assess the biblical passages concerning women with those on gays or homosexuality?


Are the wider principles used to allow for equal rights for women also applicable to the issue of homosexuality?


Are the apologetics offered by Christians to support women's equality despite biblical teachings biblically supportable?


If these apologetic interpretations are valid, would this not also mean that similar apologetics on the behalf of gay rights should be considered just as valid?



To the extent that some Christians speak against equal rights for gays and yet accept equal rights for women, is this not an inconsistent position?


If Christians can allow "today's culture" to be a factor on how we interpret the Bible vis-a-vis women's rights, why not for gay rights?
" . . . the line separating good and evil passes, not through states, nor between classes, nor between political parties either, but right through every human heart . . . ." Alexander Solzhenitsyn

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OpenedUp wrote:
East of Eden wrote:
OpenedUp wrote:
East of Eden wrote:
OpenedUp wrote:
East of Eden wrote:
OpenedUp wrote: So you do believe that God gave women a role BELOW that of men?
I think to God all our roles are equally important.
Good for you, but you still ahvent answered the question,

Regardless of Gods take on the roles, you DO BELIEVE that women are given a SUBORDINATE role when compared to men, right?
I believe men are to be the head of the house, and of the church. The New Testament also says men are to love their wives as themselves. Do you have a problem with that?
Dodge, dip, duck, dive, and dodge
You need to work on your comprehension, I already answered you.
Actually, you didn't.
Do you believe that Women are able to be head of the house?
With a husband present, no.
So women are subordinate to their husbands? Do you think that the woman must always answer to their husband, as he is head of the house?
What do you mean by always? My wife and I agree I am the head of the house, but the big issues covered by this are rare.
head of the church?
No.
Do you think the Bible is right when it says they shouldnt be allowed to speak in Church either?
Again, get specific. Do you mean preaching or socializing?
Head of a business?
Yes.
Really?
What if her and a male co-worker are up for promotion and he is equal on all levels with her? Does the man get the bid for promotion by proxy?
In that case you would give it to the one with the one with most seniority, right? I don't really care what goes on in a private business. I do care what goes on in a Christian home and church that I have anything to do with.

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East of Eden wrote:
Do you believe that Women are able to be head of the house?
With a husband present, no.
So women are subordinate to their husbands? Do you think that the woman must always answer to their husband, as he is head of the house?
What do you mean by always? My wife and I agree I am the head of the house, but the big issues covered by this are rare.
I mean that if the husband wants to make a certain decision and the wife disagrees and believes another decision is the better alternative, the husband has the ultimate authority to decide.

Now, the most common solution would of course be a discussion and compromise, but if the husband didn't feel like compromising, he could just say "no" to his wife and she would have no power to do anything about it.
head of the church?
No.
Do you think the Bible is right when it says they shouldnt be allowed to speak in Church either?
Again, get specific. Do you mean preaching or socializing?
Either
Head of a business?
Yes.
Really?
What if her and a male co-worker are up for promotion and he is equal on all levels with her? Does the man get the bid for promotion by proxy?
In that case you would give it to the one with the one with most seniority, right? I don't really care what goes on in a private business. I do care what goes on in a Christian home and church that I have anything to do with.
Ok, so women are only deemed subordinate in a CHRISTIAN setting, the CHRISTIAN home and the CHRISTIAN church. Kind of the point I have been making this whole time.

Or maybeyou just don't want women to be above you personally, since you only care that women are in their place when you "have anything to do with it"

Either way, it doesn't sound good :?

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OpenedUp wrote:
East of Eden wrote:
Do you believe that Women are able to be head of the house?
With a husband present, no.
So women are subordinate to their husbands? Do you think that the woman must always answer to their husband, as he is head of the house?
What do you mean by always? My wife and I agree I am the head of the house, but the big issues covered by this are rare.
I mean that if the husband wants to make a certain decision and the wife disagrees and believes another decision is the better alternative, the husband has the ultimate authority to decide.
BINGO
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Preaching, no, socializing, yes.
Ok, so women are only deemed subordinate in a CHRISTIAN setting, the CHRISTIAN home and the CHRISTIAN church.
Yes, kind of like give to God what is God's, and to Caesar what is Caesar's.
Or maybeyou just don't want women to be above you personally, since you only care that women are in their place when you "have anything to do with it"

Either way, it doesn't sound good :?
What do you care how Christians, or any other religion, live their lives? I don't care how you run yours. If you want to hassle another religion, I suggest Islam. There women are truly second-class citizens, with beatings, genital mutilation, and forced marriages common.

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East of Eden wrote:
OpenedUp wrote:
East of Eden wrote:
Do you believe that Women are able to be head of the house?
With a husband present, no.
So women are subordinate to their husbands? Do you think that the woman must always answer to their husband, as he is head of the house?
What do you mean by always? My wife and I agree I am the head of the house, but the big issues covered by this are rare.
I mean that if the husband wants to make a certain decision and the wife disagrees and believes another decision is the better alternative, the husband has the ultimate authority to decide.
BINGO
Either
Preaching, no, socializing, yes.
Ok, so women are only deemed subordinate in a CHRISTIAN setting, the CHRISTIAN home and the CHRISTIAN church. Kind of the point I have been making this whole time.

Or maybeyou just don't want women to be above you personally, since you only care that women are in their place when you "have anything to do with it"

Either way, it doesn't sound good :?
What do you care how Christians, or any other religion, live their lives? I don't care how you run yours. If you want to hassle another religion, I suggest Islam. There women are truly second-class citizens, with beatings, genital mutilation, and forced marriages common.
I totally agree with you about Islam, but the policies are the same- they just take theirs many steps forward.


Why do I care? Who do I care when a group of people put others below them? When they seek to control and manipulate others? Why do I care that people are thought of and treated as inferior because of some artificial belief system?

Gee... I can't imagine


It has less to do with YOUR life or a Christian's life, as it has to do with WOMEN in those lives who are belittled and controlled.

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OpenedUp wrote:
East of Eden wrote:
OpenedUp wrote:
East of Eden wrote:
Do you believe that Women are able to be head of the house?
With a husband present, no.
So women are subordinate to their husbands? Do you think that the woman must always answer to their husband, as he is head of the house?
What do you mean by always? My wife and I agree I am the head of the house, but the big issues covered by this are rare.
I mean that if the husband wants to make a certain decision and the wife disagrees and believes another decision is the better alternative, the husband has the ultimate authority to decide.
BINGO
Either
Preaching, no, socializing, yes.
Ok, so women are only deemed subordinate in a CHRISTIAN setting, the CHRISTIAN home and the CHRISTIAN church. Kind of the point I have been making this whole time.

Or maybeyou just don't want women to be above you personally, since you only care that women are in their place when you "have anything to do with it"

Either way, it doesn't sound good :?
What do you care how Christians, or any other religion, live their lives? I don't care how you run yours. If you want to hassle another religion, I suggest Islam. There women are truly second-class citizens, with beatings, genital mutilation, and forced marriages common.
I totally agree with you about Islam, but the policies are the same- they just take theirs many steps forward.
Which would make them not the same.

Why do I care? Who do I care when a group of people put others below them? When they seek to control and manipulate others? Why do I care that people are thought of and treated as inferior because of some artificial belief system?

Gee... I can't imagine
You can complain to God on Judgement Day, but I think you'll have other things on your mind.

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East of Eden wrote:
OpenedUp wrote:
East of Eden wrote:
OpenedUp wrote:
East of Eden wrote:
Do you believe that Women are able to be head of the house?
With a husband present, no.
So women are subordinate to their husbands? Do you think that the woman must always answer to their husband, as he is head of the house?
What do you mean by always? My wife and I agree I am the head of the house, but the big issues covered by this are rare.
I mean that if the husband wants to make a certain decision and the wife disagrees and believes another decision is the better alternative, the husband has the ultimate authority to decide.
BINGO
Either
Preaching, no, socializing, yes.
Ok, so women are only deemed subordinate in a CHRISTIAN setting, the CHRISTIAN home and the CHRISTIAN church. Kind of the point I have been making this whole time.

Or maybeyou just don't want women to be above you personally, since you only care that women are in their place when you "have anything to do with it"

Either way, it doesn't sound good :?
What do you care how Christians, or any other religion, live their lives? I don't care how you run yours. If you want to hassle another religion, I suggest Islam. There women are truly second-class citizens, with beatings, genital mutilation, and forced marriages common.
I totally agree with you about Islam, but the policies are the same- they just take theirs many steps forward.
Which would make them not the same.
They're at least cousins

Why do I care? Who do I care when a group of people put others below them? When they seek to control and manipulate others? Why do I care that people are thought of and treated as inferior because of some artificial belief system?

Gee... I can't imagine
You can complain to God on Judgement Day, but I think you'll have other things on your mind.
Well I think you've proven your chauvinism enough for this thread and that the Bible does in fact limit the free rights of Women.

For someone who claims to defend liberty and free rights in the politics subforum, I find it an interesting Juxtaposition.

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OpenedUp wrote:
East of Eden wrote:
OpenedUp wrote:
East of Eden wrote:
OpenedUp wrote:
East of Eden wrote:
Do you believe that Women are able to be head of the house?
With a husband present, no.
So women are subordinate to their husbands? Do you think that the woman must always answer to their husband, as he is head of the house?
What do you mean by always? My wife and I agree I am the head of the house, but the big issues covered by this are rare.
I mean that if the husband wants to make a certain decision and the wife disagrees and believes another decision is the better alternative, the husband has the ultimate authority to decide.
BINGO
Either
Preaching, no, socializing, yes.
Ok, so women are only deemed subordinate in a CHRISTIAN setting, the CHRISTIAN home and the CHRISTIAN church. Kind of the point I have been making this whole time.

Or maybeyou just don't want women to be above you personally, since you only care that women are in their place when you "have anything to do with it"

Either way, it doesn't sound good :?
What do you care how Christians, or any other religion, live their lives? I don't care how you run yours. If you want to hassle another religion, I suggest Islam. There women are truly second-class citizens, with beatings, genital mutilation, and forced marriages common.
I totally agree with you about Islam, but the policies are the same- they just take theirs many steps forward.
Which would make them not the same.
They're at least cousins
That's about like my saying Stalin just carried your non-belief a little further.

Why do I care? Who do I care when a group of people put others below them? When they seek to control and manipulate others? Why do I care that people are thought of and treated as inferior because of some artificial belief system?

Gee... I can't imagine
You can complain to God on Judgement Day, but I think you'll have other things on your mind.
Well I think you've proven your chauvinism enough for this thread and that the Bible does in fact limit the free rights of Women.
My wife would disagree with you.

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East of Eden wrote:
OpenedUp wrote:
East of Eden wrote:
OpenedUp wrote:
East of Eden wrote:
OpenedUp wrote:
East of Eden wrote:
With a husband present, no.
So women are subordinate to their husbands? Do you think that the woman must always answer to their husband, as he is head of the house?
What do you mean by always? My wife and I agree I am the head of the house, but the big issues covered by this are rare.
I mean that if the husband wants to make a certain decision and the wife disagrees and believes another decision is the better alternative, the husband has the ultimate authority to decide.
BINGO
Either
Preaching, no, socializing, yes.
Ok, so women are only deemed subordinate in a CHRISTIAN setting, the CHRISTIAN home and the CHRISTIAN church. Kind of the point I have been making this whole time.

Or maybeyou just don't want women to be above you personally, since you only care that women are in their place when you "have anything to do with it"

Either way, it doesn't sound good :?
What do you care how Christians, or any other religion, live their lives? I don't care how you run yours. If you want to hassle another religion, I suggest Islam. There women are truly second-class citizens, with beatings, genital mutilation, and forced marriages common.
I totally agree with you about Islam, but the policies are the same- they just take theirs many steps forward.
Which would make them not the same.
They're at least cousins
That's about like my saying Stalin just carried your non-belief a little further.
Not really. Atheism only means that one doesn't believe in God. THAT'S IT. It makes no merit on any other beliefs or worldviews.

Both Islam and Christianity have dogmatic BELIEFS that women are below men. That's pretty similar.
Why do I care? Who do I care when a group of people put others below them? When they seek to control and manipulate others? Why do I care that people are thought of and treated as inferior because of some artificial belief system?

Gee... I can't imagine
You can complain to God on Judgement Day, but I think you'll have other things on your mind.
Well I think you've proven your chauvinism enough for this thread and that the Bible does in fact limit the free rights of Women.
My wife would disagree with you.
Even if she read this thread?

And even then, probably just because you told her to ;)

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OpenedUp wrote:
East of Eden wrote:
OpenedUp wrote:
East of Eden wrote:
OpenedUp wrote:
East of Eden wrote:
OpenedUp wrote:
East of Eden wrote: What do you mean by always? My wife and I agree I am the head of the house, but the big issues covered by this are rare.
I mean that if the husband wants to make a certain decision and the wife disagrees and believes another decision is the better alternative, the husband has the ultimate authority to decide.
BINGO
Either
Preaching, no, socializing, yes.
Ok, so women are only deemed subordinate in a CHRISTIAN setting, the CHRISTIAN home and the CHRISTIAN church. Kind of the point I have been making this whole time.

Or maybeyou just don't want women to be above you personally, since you only care that women are in their place when you "have anything to do with it"

Either way, it doesn't sound good :?
What do you care how Christians, or any other religion, live their lives? I don't care how you run yours. If you want to hassle another religion, I suggest Islam. There women are truly second-class citizens, with beatings, genital mutilation, and forced marriages common.
I totally agree with you about Islam, but the policies are the same- they just take theirs many steps forward.
Which would make them not the same.
They're at least cousins
That's about like my saying Stalin just carried your non-belief a little further.
Not really. Atheism only means that one doesn't believe in God. THAT'S IT. It makes no merit on any other beliefs or worldviews.
Funny, you seem to spend a lot of time opining on other beliefs and worldviews here. I think the millions of Christians Stalin killed would disagree that he was not passing judgement.
Both Islam and Christianity have dogmatic BELIEFS that women are below men. That's pretty similar.
And both you and Stalin have/had dogmatic BELIEFS there is no God, or at any rate Christianity is untrue.
Why do I care? Who do I care when a group of people put others below them? When they seek to control and manipulate others? Why do I care that people are thought of and treated as inferior because of some artificial belief system?

Gee... I can't imagine
You can complain to God on Judgement Day, but I think you'll have other things on your mind.
Well I think you've proven your chauvinism enough for this thread and that the Bible does in fact limit the free rights of Women.
My wife would disagree with you.
Even if she read this thread?

And even then, probably just because you told her to ;)
Wrong, speak for your own wife.

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East of Eden wrote:
OpenedUp wrote: totally agree with you about Islam, but the policies are the same- they just take theirs many steps forward.
Which would make them not the same.
They're at least cousins
That's about like my saying Stalin just carried your non-belief a little further.
Not really. Atheism only means that one doesn't believe in God. THAT'S IT. It makes no merit on any other beliefs or worldviews.
Funny, you seem to spend a lot of time opining on other beliefs and worldviews here. I think the millions of Christians Stalin killed would disagree that he was not passing judgement.
I never said that he wasn't passing judgment and I never said he had NO beliefs or worldviews, I'm just saying that when you say someone is an atheist, all you know is that they don't believe in God. They could be a hardcore naturalist or work for a lumber company, they could believe in psychics and terra card readings, or they could think its a bunch of crap, they could try to spread communism through death and fear or they could be a Humanist who believes in the life and power of all people.

Atheists have beliefs and worldviews, but those beliefs and BEING ATHEIST does not mean that they follow a particular set of beliefs and worldviews, ONLY, and I stress the only, that they don't believe in God.


Both Islam and Christianity have dogmatic BELIEFS that women are below men. That's pretty similar.
And both you and Stalin have/had dogmatic BELIEFS there is no God, or at any rate Christianity is untrue.
Right, but that in no way effects our judgment on others. Those come from different personal beliefs than atheism.
Why do I care? Who do I care when a group of people put others below them? When they seek to control and manipulate others? Why do I care that people are thought of and treated as inferior because of some artificial belief system?

Gee... I can't imagine
You can complain to God on Judgement Day, but I think you'll have other things on your mind.
Well I think you've proven your chauvinism enough for this thread and that the Bible does in fact limit the free rights of Women.
My wife would disagree with you.
Even if she read this thread?

And even then, probably just because you told her to ;)
Wrong, speak for your own wife.
Well I don't have a wife, but I do have a Christian girlfriend of three years.

But we have an EQUAL partnership and make decisions together. If I think something is right and she thinks something else is right, I don't have the last say, period, as you would say I do, we have to actually discuss it and work it out and I wouldn't have it any other way.

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