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I sympathize with people who have not constructed a satisfying and fulfilling life for themselves and who feel a need to search outside themselves for meaning.
By WHAT definition of “success in daily life” can one achieve success without having an understanding of what “they actually are living for”? Are you referring to material definitions of success?
What IS a definition of “success in daily life”?
A person can have a fulfilling life in society and yet feel empty on the inside. Success is defined by our prestige. It is given to us by family, friends, and society. A successful life is defined in relation to the dictates of societal goals.
But some people come to ask who they are and what purpose they are serving that is unrelated to society and the external world. Society says you are a success because you are a respected lawyer with a nice family and lots of money. You have the prestige of a successful lawyer. Yet a lawyer can come to ask who they are and their purpose is regardless of how they are defined by society.
I cannot relate to a person not knowing who they are – though I realize that it is a common expression.
OK, so you don't understand these questions. Fair enough but "who are you?".
If one has not “experienced meaning” in life they perhaps need external guidance.
It can be a great help but where does one find these rare people that understand anything? They are not proponents of fundamentalism and secularism which are the dominant motivating forces in society and the odds are way to heavy that a person seeking help in dealing with "meaning" will run into soul killers in one form or another whether intentional charlatans or misguided proponents of some form of charlatanism, politics, New age fantasy, secular religion, or humanism.
Perhaps others are interested in “experienced by the heart” and bypassing experience and knowledge. I prefer to use my mind. I am not inclined to set aside the real world in order to seek supernatural experiences that some claim exist – nor am I willing to use mind-altering substances to achieve “greater understanding”.
But how do you define the real world? Do you really believe it is revealed to you through your intellect alone?
“Feel an idea” is not rational in my world. “Think an idea” is rational. I do not seek the irrational.
Next time your wife says "I love you," ask her if it is her intellect or heart she is referring to. If she says it is her heart, tell her that since it is irrational you don't want it and see how far honesty gets you.
I have read the interview. Academic philosophy is not a major interest of mine. I prefer “deep thinking” on matters related to the real world I inhabit.
Prof. Needleman was not referring to Academic philosophy but philosophy as the love of wisdom which must include the necessary psychology..
Simone felt the real world and was drawn to it at fourteen yet many never feel it. What is the real world?
Excerpts from a letter Simone Weil wrote on May 15, 1942 in Marseilles, France to her close friend Father Perrin:
At fourteen I fell into one of those fits of bottomless despair that come with adolescence, and I seriously thought of dying because of the mediocrity of my natural faculties. The exceptional gifts of my brother, who had a childhood and youth comparable to those of Pascal, brought my own inferiority home to me. I did not mind having no visible successes, but what did grieve me was the idea of being excluded from that transcendent kingdom to which only the truly great have access and wherein truth abides. I preferred to die rather than live without that truth.
She is willing to die for the real world where truth abides and you prefer to ignore it to preserve your subjective conception of reality.
I am not open to hearsay, conjecture, ancient “truths” that cannot be verified, personal opinions, dogma, etc. I am not impressed by claims that “goddidit” regardless of which gods are being promoted or by whom.
The bottom line is that you are not open to that which your preconceptions do not think it worth being open to. I suggest this closed minded mindset leads to throwing out the baby with the bathwater.
“Inner empiricism” is NOT my term or my concept. To me it translates as emotion. How is it different from emotion?
True inner empiricism are the results of efforts of conscious attention used to look within beginning with bodily sensations and mechanical habitual movements in response to external stimuli so as to consciously experience the self. Conscious attention strives for emotional impartiality.
Can the “greater good” be shown to exist? Is it provided by an outside force?
It can be revealed theoretically. Having access to it requires an inner change. Most don't think it important other than lip service about world peace and the like.
Suppose you live in a town and know about twenty friends that play chess. These friends if they belonged to USCF would be related at about 1200 in playing strength. You would be rated around 1600. You would be considered the one who really understands chess since you beat them over the board. You have no reason to think of bettering your game since you are already top dog.
Now a visiting grandmaster rated 2600 visits the town. Someone tells him that you are a marvelous player. The two of you meet and he blows you away ten straight games and you are clearly no competition. Now you see that you never really understood the game but the illusion of understanding was as a result of the collective low level of playing strength. Now it is your choice to continue feeling self important by beating those less than you or trying to understand the game by willing to accept your lack of understanding. Understanding the real world is just like this. Beauty is an indicator that there is a greater quality of meaning behind what our senses experience . A person begins by admitting as Socrates did that "I Know nothing." in relation to what exists behind but inspires the experience of beauty.
If we feel the validity of this question the next question is how to ponder, contemplate, so as to deepen the question and allow for guidance unrelated to our egotism and its concepts to come from within since it cannot be provided by external life.
I have encountered many would-be “advisors” in life who attempted to show me that they knew how I should learn to “live a better life”. Some I got to know beyond the superficial. Their life did not seem superior in any way to my own (and perhaps not nearly as satisfying). How were they qualified to advise me how I should live?
Notice how I referred to guidance coming from within and you changed it to external guides. The question is how to develop inner discrimination.
How is anyone qualified to tell others how they should live?
The only ones universally tolerated as qualified to tell others how they should live are collectively called mother-in laws. If you don't believe it you may suffer not so divine retribution