Swinger lifestyle

achilles12604 · Post by **achilles12604** » Sun Feb 03, 2008 7:29 pm

What say you? Evil? Ok? Adultery?

(CAUTION: Do not google "swinger lifestyle" if you are at work . . . I am serious.)

Beto · Post by **Beto** » Fri Feb 08, 2008 1:31 pm

I'm not comfortable with the unbridled indulgence of any animal drive. But if one is, I suppose it's ok if no one is lied to. I just hope swingers understand and accept the responsibility it entails (regarding possible partners outside the circle).

Cathar1950 · Post by **Cathar1950** » Fri Feb 08, 2008 1:49 pm

Confused wrote:
Cathar1950 wrote:
Confused wrote:
Cathar1950 wrote:I don't have a wife or a girlfriend but if I did I am sure someone that wanted to swap just wants do do my wife or girlfriend and doesn't care if I did theirs as they are boring, ugly and mean. It would be like someone trading their shoes with holes in them for my hummer, even if it is just an imaginary hummer.
Of course gas would be cheaper if I just had shoes.
And who said Chivalry was dead!!
Maybe that is why you love me?
I wouldn't trade you Confused.
I am not being mushy mind you.
I would never confuse you with "Mushy". That is one thing I am quite clear on. When all else fails, you will are, and always be my sentimental rock.

Do they have an embarassed Emoticon?
You made me blush. Stop it or I might cry.

It seems today more then one wife might not be as wonderful as it was when they were property. Adultry was usually seen as a crime against the man.
I can't imagine having more then one wife or even lover as it is demanding work and who needs more then one boss any way.
I think women make good bosses as long as they give you time and space to nap.

"Unbridled indulgence" can be a problem with anything. Even the fun stuff.

Furrowed Brow · Post by **Furrowed Brow** » Sat Feb 09, 2008 10:44 am

Cathar1950 wrote:I think women make good bosses as long as they give you time and space to nap.

Wise words wise one. But I don't think swinging is about communal napping.

Suddenly I've got a picture of Joey and Ross - the show when they take a nap together.

Cathar1950 · Post by **Cathar1950** » Sat Feb 09, 2008 2:40 pm

Furrowed Brow wrote:
Cathar1950 wrote:I think women make good bosses as long as they give you time and space to nap.
Wise words wise one. But I don't think swinging is about communal napping.

Suddenly I've got a picture of Joey and Ross - the show when they take a nap together.

I missed that episode.
I am using a traditional definition of "nap" and not as an euphemism for sex.

naaraxi · Post by **naaraxi** » Wed Feb 13, 2008 9:36 pm

"To each , his own" ...
I agree , as long as nobody is hurt , it's not 'wrong' .
I'd never do it , though . I may cheat , I'm not perfect .
But , in marriage , you shouldn't have to do it . [That is , in an ideal marriage]
You shouldn't marry someone if you're not sure they're everything you want .

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obie · Post by **obie** » Sat Feb 16, 2008 8:41 pm

whatever floats your boat. I personally see nothing wrong with it. I simply will not do it. Nor marry someone who is into that sort of thing. The reason simply being is this. I dont want my husband sharing me with other men. I would find taht degrading. I'm not even that jealous. But having to be shared with others like property bothers me.

But I have friends who frequent swingers clubs and what they do in their own business. I dont see why any one should ever have a problem with that.