JehovahsWitness wrote: ↑Fri Jun 10, 2022 5:21 pm
benchwarmer wrote: ↑Fri Jun 10, 2022 5:13 pm
benchwarmer wrote: ↑Fri Jun 10, 2022 8:03 am You are purposely conditioning your child to believe in a lie.
JehovahsWitness wrote: ↑Fri Jun 10, 2022 2:02 pmHow can you qualify something as a lie when you do not know if that thing is true or not?
You lifted that quote slightly out of context.
Special pleading aside, you don't know if Santa exists or not and you don't know if God exists or not (correct me if I am wrong ). So .... how can you say someone teaching about God is purposely conditioning a child to, {quote} "believe in a lie"?
Apparently I'm not being clear. Let me try again. My quote above is directly related to Santa. Thus you have lifted it out of context and assume I'm talking about God. I'm not in this instance.
- Parent tells child that Santa visits on Christmas eve and delivers presents.
- This parent knows that nobody visits and has to place presents under the tree labelled "From Santa".
- This parent does NOT know for a fact there is no Santa, only that if he is real, he is not visiting and leaving presents.
- This parent is lying. This parent is conditioning the child to believe the lie by providing the 'evidence' (the present) and perpetuating the lie.
Now, how does this relate to teaching about God (or anything really)? It only relates in matters where people put forward beliefs as facts.
Examples:
1) You believe the Christian God exists. You tell your children that you believe the Christian God exists. No lying.
2) You believe the Christian God exists. You present your evidence for your beliefs and ask your children to come to their own conclusions. No lying.
3) You believe the Christian God exists. You tell your children that God
does indeed exist. Lying. You don't actually
know this for a fact unless you've somehow physically detected Him and can provide that evidence.
As soon as you are engaged in lying, especially to promote a particular viewpoint, then I think it's clear you are conditioning the child to believe.
Please read the above carefully. I'm not suggesting all Christian parents engage in willful lying. However, we all know that many are when they don't actually know for a fact that God is like this or that or even there. Faith and fact are two different things. It might be a fact that one believes, but that does not make the belief itself a fact. Putting a belief forward as a fact is lying. Plain and simple.
Now you will probably respond by saying "but we don't know one way or the other, so how is it lying?". It's lying if you don't know one way or the other yet pretend that you actually
know. Of course you could be lucky and get it right, but that's just lucky.
Example:
I say Fred is, for a fact, in the kitchen. Now I don't actually know this, I'm just telling his wife that because he could be in the shed drinking whiskey. I'm lying because I don't really know. Yet, it could turn out Fred is really just in the kitchen eating cheese. The lie is me presenting belief/hope as a fact.