Goose wrote:
As for your question, "is it possible to become saved then still consider yourself saved if you are not a disciple?" - Our salvation is not dependant on becoming a disciple. Therefore we can't lose our salvation on the sole criterion we are not following Christ's teachings.
OnceConvinced wrote:I believe you have a non-sequitar here and I don't believe there are any scriptures to back up what you're saying.
How is it a non-sequitur? Please explain. I've given plenty of scripture that clearly shows we are saved by a process of belief, repentance and grace. If you have a scripture that suggests we are saved by something other than this or can lose our salvation because we don't follow Christ's teachings, on let's for example
go the extra mile, then it's high time you produced it.
OnceConvinced wrote:A scenario. Let's say you are accepted into a sports team. Why are you accepted in? Because of your skills in that sport. You're one of the best. But what if you refuse to obey the rules that have been set of players to follow. What if you cheat a lot, play dirty and what if you bring the game into disrepute. Will you be kept on just because you are a great player? No. Likewise I don't think you can claim that just because you are saved by an act of faith means that act of faith is going to keep you in good steed with the creator from then on.
Poor analogy. We don't have to be one of the best or a great player to be accepted onto the Christian team. If anything, one can be the worst player and make the team because we make the team through grace, not performance.
OnceConvinced wrote:What you seem to be suggesting is that once saved, always saved, no matter what you do afterwards. The only way to become unsaved is if you renounce Christ. Is that what you are suggesting?
We are beginning to cover old ground. All you are now doing is asking the same basic questions, worded differently, that I've already answered.
OnceConvinced wrote:I believe that you can lose your salvation by not following the rules. i.e not being a disciple of Christ.
Where does it say one can lose their salvation by not being a disciple or not following the rules? What rules? Please quote the scriptures.
OnceConvinced wrote:We can go back to discussing individual scriptures if you like.
I would love for nothing more. It would be more productive than debating your personal life story.
Goose wrote:
One can consider them self saved, of course. But the NT spends plenty of time providing internal checks for a believer to know whether or not they have the type of faith that saves. As well as external checks so Christians can identify real believers.
OnceConvinced wrote:See you talk about these internal checks and I agree that they are there. But it would suggest to me that if a Christian sees they cannot put a check next to a box, then their salvation is not assured.
Hello? Isn't that a good thing? That a Christian can say, "Hey, wait a minute, I'm missing a check in that box, I better address that." Those checks are there precisely so we CAN be assured of our salvation, not cause a Christian to lose it.
OnceConvinced wrote:
None of the scriptures you quoted worked against me. In fact I saw them as enhancing my own argument. There were plenty of scriptures quoted that we were still debating. I did not have the time to deal with a whole heap more. So I chose to deal with the ones that were Christ's teachings rather than Pauls. I did not want to get bogged down discussing meanings of hundreds of scriptures, which is why I was reluctant to bring in any more at that point. Paul's were the obvious ones to omit as to me Jesus's ones carry more weight. Don't they carry more weight for you?
Nope. I see all scripture as equal. I'm not in the awkward position of rejecting certain scriptures because I don't like them or they hurt my argument. And when you are done addressing all the scripture I gave earlier I'll give you some more.
OnceConvinced wrote: The first one addressed people who think there is no way they could fall from faith.
Goose wrote:No. It addresses a fall to temptation not a fall from faith.
1Corinthians 10:12-13 Therefore, the person who thinks he is standing securely should watch out that he does not fall. No temptation has overtaken you that is unusual for human beings. But God is faithful, and he will not allow you to be tempted beyond your strength. Instead, along with the temptation he will also provide a way out, so that you may be able to endure it.
OnceConvinced wrote:No, I think it relates very much to your salvation. The entire chapter seems to be warning that sin is so dangerous that you could find yourself falling from God's grace. This pretty much enhances my argument that if you are not following Christ's teachings (being a disciple), then you are in danger of falling from grace.
Except of course that the verse and chapter in question say nothing about "salvation" or falling from "God's grace." How you see this as enhancing your argument is again baffling. Actually, the chapter tells us God will not allow us to be tempted by sin beyond what we can handle (verse 13).
OnceConvinced wrote: And the second one shows that it takes more than belief to retain your salvation and that even Paul realised he could lose it.
Goose wrote:How you get all that from 1 Corinthians 9:27 is beyond me.
OnceConvinced wrote:By taking it in context and reading the entire chapter?
Nice one. Now tell us how you get all that from 1 Corinthians 9:27.
OnceConvinced wrote:I know where you're coming from though.
Goose wrote:No, I don't think you do.
OnceConvinced wrote:
Believe me, I do. I was right there where you are now.
And where is that, OC? Where am I?
OnceConvinced wrote:There was never any doubt in my mind (thus my name OnceConvinced)...
Goose wrote:Never a doubt? I doubt that.
OnceConvinced wrote:You perogative of course, but no, never, ever. I even had Christians incredulous when I made that comment. I in turn was incredulous at their lack of faith in God. Doubts did come, obviously later on, which is why I am an ex-Christian now. But that wasn't untill in my 30s (having become a Christian at the age of 7)
Please don't take this the wrong way (as an
ad hom), but if one
never had a doubt or question of any kind small or large at
any point leading up to or during their Christian walk, then honestly, I'm sceptical of that person's ability to think critically. Which of course makes me think little, if any, critical thinking went into your path to de-conversion. Though you'll no doubt argue that it was critical thinking that lead you away from Christianity it will now be hard to buy that in light of your admission.
OnceConvinced wrote:Hardships never dented my faith. Neither did pain or suffering. I've had no real bad experience in the church (apart from a couple of camps I went to as a kid) My firsts doubts started to rise when I started to discover that the words written in the bible could not be trusted. That they weren't all they were cracked up to be and it had been a long time since I had seen God do anything in my life. It was not an easy realisation to come to and I was in denial for a long time, refusing to accept I had been deluded. Even now it is still a hard thing to accept that I was deluded for over 30 years of my life.
in another thread OnceConvinced wrote:I did believe I knew God's voice and there were times when God seemed to be leading me down a particular path and I was so convinced about it. All these signs seemed to be pointing in the direction. Things seemed to fit together perfectly. For many years, I felt I was able to rely on that. But then around three years ago, I learnt a hard lesson when I found out that on that occassion, it wasn't God. I guess you could say it was a drastic thing, because it made me realise that all those previous times I thought God was guiding me, he wasn't. I was just kidding myself. I don't want to go into details on scenario, but it was a real wake up call for me.
From here
Maybe you could reconcile the contradictions in your story for me. Was it the hard lesson from 3 years ago that you found out wasn't God guiding you that started it all or was it the discovery that the words in the Bible couldn't be trusted.
OnceConvinced wrote:...and it was inconcievable to me that I could ever become an ex-Christian.
If it was inconceivable at the time you were a Christian then you were obviously trying to conceive if you could become an ex-Christian. Which means you entertained the idea. One wonders why you were entertaining the idea of becoming an ex-Christian while you were a Christian.
OnceConvinced wrote:This is very weird logic and contradictory to the meaning of the word itself. For something to be inconceivable means that it's something that cannot be conceived. In other words, something that would simply never come to mind.
Dictionary meaning for my use of the word:
1 impossible to imagine or think of:
The idea that they might not win was inconceivable to them.
It would be inconceivable for her to change her mind.
But it did come to mind by your own admission. One must be able to conceive the idea to determine if it is inconceivable. The analogy in the definition you cite shows this. The team must first imagine themselves not winning in order to arrive at the position that not winning is inconceivable. It's a paradoxical statement to say it is inconceivable to think of something in the sense that it can't be thought. One must think of it first to know if it is inconceivable. You thought of becoming an ex-Christian first, then arrived at the position that this was inconceivable or more appropriately unbelievable or unthinkable. Why were you thinking about becoming an ex-Christian while you were a Christian?
OnceConvinced wrote:Leaving Christianity was a thought I could never entertain. If was a statement of faith for me. "I could never leave the faith. I could never be so foolish". Exactly the stance that you are taking in this thread. I take it that you have seriously considered leaving the faith many times? For me I never got to any stage where I though "I wonder if I should become an ex-Christian". For me it was one day a couple of years ago, when I realised that I could not longer consider myself a Christian.
How convenient. Everytime I say something you say you had the same stance and said the same things. Is this proving something? It's all very interesting, but are you debating or preaching now?
OnceConvinced wrote:I think you are trying too hard to place the blame of my deconversion on me.
So, it's all God's fault?
Goose wrote:We all wear glasses, OC. It's called a worldview. You changed your theistic/Christian glasses for the glasses of an agnostic/sceptic. I tried the agnostic/sceptic glasses for a time in my life and I found I kept bumping into the walls and furniture and stuff. Life is much clearer to me with my theistic/Christian glasses on.
OnceConvinced wrote:No, I didn't change my glasses. I took the ones I had off, saw that things were completely different without them on and chose to look at things critically from then on, not just accepting everything I was told or what I read based on a preconcieved notion of God's existance. A sceptic/agnostic is a very neutral position to take.
Oh yes, the objective and entirely neutral position of the sceptic/agnostic.