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East of Eden wrote:
joeyknuccione wrote:
Arguing about promiscuity is nothing more than projecting one's morality onto others.
Something we all do.
Fair 'nuff, except for that whole restricting the rights and freedoms of others because one objects on moral grounds.
East of Eden wrote:
If individuals with same-sex feelings want treatment to change that, why is that a problem? As for the APA, they long ago have bought into the gay agenda. Scientist are no less likely to be ideologically driven than non-scientists.
It's not a problem to want to change, it is a problem to present a biased source and data.
East of Eden wrote:
joeykuccione wrote:
It is my position it doesn't matter regarding the rights and freedoms of individuals to live their lives according to their consciences.
It was brought up to see if we can at least get agreement on the promiscuity of homosexuals, something that far from being a 'smear', is ackowledged by gays themselves.
I see nothing here to negate my position. Whether one wants to carry on with one or a hundred and one is their own business.
East of Eden wrote:
joeyknuccione wrote:
Too often it is. As I pointed out in a previous post which East of Eden never addressed, there are more than a few families with female and male "role models" that are anything but.
Which proves what?
See the post you seem to have skipped over or read without response.
East of Eden wrote:
joeyknuccione wrote:
Who makes the determination as to what is optimal?
Doesn't "loving, doting parent" create an "optimal"?
All I see in the 'male and female parent is best' argument is a relatively sexist one.
For which sex?...>reference to David Blankenhorn<
I'll take that as "all who agree with me are experts in the field".
East of Eden wrote:
joeyknuccione wrote:
Go ahead, but place a ban on producing offspring because such close bloodlines can be shown to significantly increase chances of disabilities in offspring.
So you are making a non-religious argument against this form of marriage?
A scientific argument. Whether it aligns with other folks' a/religious beliefs is on them.
East of Eden wrote:
joeyknuccione wrote:
That'n was legal not too long ago. In our more 'enlightened' age we understand such young children seldom have the capacity of informed consent, thus bans in this regard.
Another non-religious objection to a form of marriage.
Based on a reasonable and logical conclusion drawn from psychology. A child of thirteen is not generally sufficiently mature to understand what all is involved with marriage.
East of Eden wrote:
joeyknuccione wrote:
Such is still somewhat futile in debate, where we "seriously" seek to understand one another's positions. "In your opinion" does little to negate or confirm what one has presented, opinion or not.
It is a way of pointing out that many statements on this forum are opinion, not fact, including me.
Plenty fair, and I agree to much of that there "opinion spoutin'" myself.
That said, surely you'd agree that just saying something is opinion doesn't really show that opinion to be incorrect or correct.
East of Eden wrote:
joeyknuccione wrote:
Unless that person's a/religious position is they should be able to marry the person they love.
You've already pointed out examples above where people shouldn't be able to marry the person they love.
Based on
informed consent.
Let's look at this'n in context...
joeyknuccione wrote:
The complaint is that some Christians want to tell EVERYONE how to live out THEIR lives BY FORCE OF LAW, whether they're Christians or not. You think that's what "religious freedom" means. That's rather like saying "Freedom of Speech" means you should be free only to say things that I agree with. It's ridiculous on its face.
East of Eden wrote:
My excersing religious freedom doesn't negate anyone else's.
Unless that person's a/religious position is they should be able to marry the person they love.
Voting to block another's a/religious freedom is impacting their a/religious freedom. It can be no other way.
Notice here the problem originates with Christians using their vote to enforce their perspective. A reasonable thing on it's face, but the problem lies in how can we know the Christian God is the one we should be seeking to please?
East of Eden is ostensibly saying if we
don't allow the Christian to
prevent others their freedom, then we have somehow blocked East of Eden's freedom.
I would then ammend my statement or claim to such as "We should be able to restrict the rights of others to restrict the rights of others". How many itterations of that statement before we realize folks should be as free as our multi-cultural, multi-religious society can allow?
Notice too East of Eden, as is his wont, has not included the more important part of my statement, where the
voting to block another's a/religious freedom is a direct act of "negating" another's a/religious freedom. Of course to some extent we can and do block religious freedoms, notice there's not a whole lot of human sacrifice anymore, or putting folks in the stocks 'cause they skip a day of church.
The point here is that we should seek to
include as many as possible in the blessings of this life. As a government entity offers
privileges to married folks, so too should that government include
other folks regarding who that government will offer privileges to.
East of Eden wrote:
And I will say again, all laws are an imposition of someone's morality on others who disagree.
And as I've said, such laws should seek the least imposition possible.
East of Eden wrote:
joeyknuccione wrote:
The very issue here is the violation of the Constitution, where the government offers freedoms and privileges to one group, and disallows them to another on the basis of them having sex with another consenting adult.
Such alleged Constitutional violation has yet to be determined, and anyway I thought you believed that to be just an ancient document that shouldn't constrict us?
I've said we should look to the Constitution for leadership, and should never hold ourselves
bound to it. I don't think I've ever used the term "constrict", and consider it's use here a rhetorical tool to imply some harm to others, as well as a form of psychological projection, where the individual seeks to "constrict" the rights of homosexuals to marry the person they love.
East of Eden wrote:
joeyknuccione wrote:
We've made societal determination that girls of such a young age can't give informed consent.
And in CA and many other states we have made a societal determination that marriage is between a man and a woman.
And folks seek to overturn this vote.
Before it's said, I do not now, nor have I ever advocated allowing young children to marry.
East of Eden wrote:
joeyknuccione wrote:
Credibility is stretched when one rightfully declares they should vote their conscience, and that conscience is religious, but they don't use religion to inform their vote.
So what if it is? That is truly an extremist position. I don't believe in the separation of church and mind.
Then you agree yours is a position based on religion?
Then we get back to showing one's religious position should be considered above another's a/religious position.
East of Eden wrote:
joeyknuccione wrote:
Regardless of whether religiously based or not, the law is unfair, and unconstitutionally so on the grounds it preserves for some what it denies others.
Unconstitutional in your opinion.
I take that to mean you can't dispute it.
East of Eden wrote:
joeyknuccione wrote:
What does promiscuity have to do with folks seeking to marry one another anyway? If the parties involved agree to an open marriage I see no insurmountable problems.
From a practical standpoint it doesn't produce stable marriages, which kids need.
If all concerned enter into the deal with the promiscuity part of it, you have no claim.
I notice many heterosexual couples are "plagued" by promiscuity, are we to prevent those marriages?
East of Eden wrote:
joeyknuccione wrote:
Those who prevent their attempting to enjoy the "married to the one they love lifestyle".
Again, you've shown two examples above where you prevent people from enjoying being "married to the one they love ".
And AGAIN YOU STRIP THE CONTEXT.
Why?
Let's take a gander...
joeyknuccione wrote:
Does that mean "force everyone to live like you think Christians should"?
East of Eden wrote:
Who is forcing gays to stop their chosen lifestyle?
Those who prevent their attempting to enjoy the "married to the one they love lifestyle".
The government bestows benefits and privileges on married couples, and preventing these to people based on who they prefer to have sex with is attempting to "stop their chosen lifestyle", when their "chosen lifestyle" is to live as a married couple.
This is not about children, this is about grown, consenting adults who seek to enjoy the same rights and benefits afforded to other members of society.