What say you? Evil? Ok? Adultery?
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achilles12604
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Post #1It is a first class human tragedy that people of the earth who claim to believe in the message of Jesus, whom they describe as the Prince of Peace, show little of that belief in actual practice.
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Post #2I don't think it is 'EVIL' or "ADULTRY' (if all parties agree to it), but I do think it is STUPID these days. The chances of STD's are too great IMO. Some of those are incurable, and AIDS needs a lot of attention, or becomes fatal.achilles12604 wrote:What say you? Evil? Ok? Adultery?
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Somehow I can't help but think that those who subscribe are a little lost. I equate swinging to anything else someone might gorge on. If I went to a restaurant an ordered a Chinese, Japanese, Indian meal, three times over and gorged myself, I think you would right to be a little disgusted with me.
I think atheism is best suited for those with minimalist tastes. So for this atheist swinging attempts way too much. Not evil. Just an unwarranted application of pelvic energy.
I think atheism is best suited for those with minimalist tastes. So for this atheist swinging attempts way too much. Not evil. Just an unwarranted application of pelvic energy.
Re: Swinger lifestyle
Post #4I am guessing you aren't referring to swing dancing? No? Ok, if both partners agree to it, then where is the adultery? I guess I am looking for scripture that specifically says what adultery includes and if each person doesn't see it as adultery, are they allowed to define it individually? If one doesn't see it as cheating on the other and the other agrees, where is the adultery?achilles12604 wrote:What say you? Evil? Ok? Adultery?
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Post #5After your caution, I won't even google it at home!!achilles12604 wrote:What say you? Evil? Ok? Adultery?
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Not 'evil', but maybe wrong for other reasons - what is one trying to accomplish with multiple partners? Is it insecurity or some kind of seeking something that they may not otherwise have?
It would cause me severe mental anguish to see my husband with someone else, I think! I'm pretty sure he would feel the same. There is actually a group of folks that do this, rather openly in a small town near my house.
It just seems that it would cause hurt more often than not. (I'm assuming husbands and wives here)
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I don't have a wife or a girlfriend but if I did I am sure someone that wanted to swap just wants do do my wife or girlfriend and doesn't care if I did theirs as they are boring, ugly and mean. It would be like someone trading their shoes with holes in them for my hummer, even if it is just an imaginary hummer.
Of course gas would be cheaper if I just had shoes.
Of course gas would be cheaper if I just had shoes.
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had a good laugh - " boring, ugly and mean " really got me! thanksCathar1950 wrote:I don't have a wife or a girlfriend but if I did I am sure someone that wanted to swap just wants do do my wife or girlfriend and doesn't care if I did theirs as they are boring, ugly and mean. It would be like someone trading their shoes with holes in them for my hummer, even if it is just an imaginary hummer.
Of course gas would be cheaper if I just had shoes.
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And who said Chivalry was dead!!Cathar1950 wrote:I don't have a wife or a girlfriend but if I did I am sure someone that wanted to swap just wants do do my wife or girlfriend and doesn't care if I did theirs as they are boring, ugly and mean. It would be like someone trading their shoes with holes in them for my hummer, even if it is just an imaginary hummer.
Of course gas would be cheaper if I just had shoes.
What we do for ourselves dies with us,
What we do for others and the world remains
and is immortal.
-Albert Pine
Never be bullied into silence.
Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
Accept no one persons definition of your life; define yourself.
-Harvey Fierstein
What we do for others and the world remains
and is immortal.
-Albert Pine
Never be bullied into silence.
Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
Accept no one persons definition of your life; define yourself.
-Harvey Fierstein
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Cathar1950
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Maybe that is why you love me?Confused wrote:And who said Chivalry was dead!!Cathar1950 wrote:I don't have a wife or a girlfriend but if I did I am sure someone that wanted to swap just wants do do my wife or girlfriend and doesn't care if I did theirs as they are boring, ugly and mean. It would be like someone trading their shoes with holes in them for my hummer, even if it is just an imaginary hummer.
Of course gas would be cheaper if I just had shoes.
I wouldn't trade you Confused.
I am not being mushy mind you.
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I would never confuse you with "Mushy". That is one thing I am quite clear on. When all else fails, you will are, and always be my sentimental rock.Cathar1950 wrote:Maybe that is why you love me?Confused wrote:And who said Chivalry was dead!!Cathar1950 wrote:I don't have a wife or a girlfriend but if I did I am sure someone that wanted to swap just wants do do my wife or girlfriend and doesn't care if I did theirs as they are boring, ugly and mean. It would be like someone trading their shoes with holes in them for my hummer, even if it is just an imaginary hummer.
Of course gas would be cheaper if I just had shoes.
I wouldn't trade you Confused.
I am not being mushy mind you.
What we do for ourselves dies with us,
What we do for others and the world remains
and is immortal.
-Albert Pine
Never be bullied into silence.
Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
Accept no one persons definition of your life; define yourself.
-Harvey Fierstein
What we do for others and the world remains
and is immortal.
-Albert Pine
Never be bullied into silence.
Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
Accept no one persons definition of your life; define yourself.
-Harvey Fierstein
