Difflugia wrote: ↑Thu Jun 02, 2022 7:35 pm
Jose Fly wrote: ↑Thu Jun 02, 2022 2:35 pmWhat goes on in their mind when they demand "show me the evidence", ignore everything that's provided in response, and then come back later and make the same demand all over again?
Because from a particular point of view, that's how the game looks like it's played. I think I can say without controversy that most people would agree in general with the following statements about themselves in relation to others:
- Smart people know how to evaluate evidence.
- I'm smart.
- Other people are smart.
- Smart people agree with me.
I guess that makes me an outlier then, because I don't take that sort of approach (at least as far as I can tell). I'm very much a "if it's important, don't rely on what others say...go look for yourself" person.
Also, I think it's important to keep in mind that my OP isn't just about creationists and debates with them, but is about how I've never been able to relate to the conservative religious way of thinking on much of anything (end times, faith healing, etc). So I'm wondering if the same is true for those on the other side. Are they just as baffled by my way of thinking as I am by theirs?
There are a bunch of different ways that this can play out. The best case category is for someone with whom most others agree most of the time. Disagreements lead to cognitive dissonances that must be resolved, but there aren't many disagreements, so no main premises are seriously challenged. Resolving a particular dissonance does require more closely examining the areas of disagreement, though.
But from what I've seen, many of those on "the other side" resolve these conflicts mostly by denying the conflicts exist, waving them away in a shallow manner (e.g. attributing it all to Satan, relying on platitudes), or attacking the source of the conflict but not resolving the actual issue. For example, because I asked too many questions that they couldn't answer, our church leaders basically went after me and my parents because I "ask too many questions" and "needed to learn what it means to have faith", which of course was my parents' fault. It's like it never occurred to them to actually try and answer the questions I asked!
That's in direct contrast with the reactions I got to the questions I'd ask as an undergrad in biology. There, I was praised for asking good questions and I was not only given resources to seek answers on my own, but taught the tools and techniques necessary to answer future questions on my own.
That makes me wonder....would a conservative Christian from my old church be just as confused by that approach to questioning as I was by our church's approach to my questions?
Whatever one concludes, evaluating evidence is a learned, practiced skill and the exercise can't help but improve that skill. That process overall also reinforces each of those internalized premises. In addition to improving their own evaluation skills, those in this camp also become more and more expert at identifying differences in how others evaluate evidence.
Yet from what I've seen, that sort of thing is actively discouraged in many religious circles. There, people are praised and rewarded for having strong, unshakable faith. So again I have to wonder....were the people in the church (and the creationists I've debated) just as confused and frustrated by all my questions as I was with their responses to them? Just as I was thinking "Why can't they just answer the question", were they thinking "Why is he so lacking in faith"?
Imagine someone in this category being told that they're catastrophically wrong, that they don't understand the evidence, don't know what they're talking about, or are stupid. How would they react to that? It doesn't happen often, so somebody is really wrong and someone good at evaluating evidence will generally be able to at least pinpoint exact areas of disagreement such that if the dissonance can't be completely resolved, it can at least be compartmentalized. However, if one's experience is that others dismiss all of their evidence as worthless, then the least comfortable resolution is that their evidence is genuinely worthless. An easier one to swallow is to imagine that honest debate involves asking for evidence and then ignoring it.
I know what my approach is after hearing all that....ask the person who's accusing me to explain and show how those things are so. When I posed some questions to our church leaders and they would say "You just don't understand", I would practically beg them to explain so I could understand.
A corollary to this is that someone that is very good at evaluating evidence assumes that others can evaluate evidence just as well. If that's true and a particular interpretation of the evidence is very obviously flawed, then an easier conclusion is sometimes that the opponent is lying. Now imagine both halves of that interaction. One participant repeatedly calls the other a liar and one participant is repeatedly called a liar, knowing that they're not. In particular, further imagine the conclusions one might come to through repeatedly and falsely being called a liar. One is that claims of lying are a normal part of debate. Another is that dishonesty itself is actually a valid debate tactic.
That aspect of these debates is probably the most fascinating for me. I recall one creationist who would post copied material from a creationist website, then after I (or others) would post rebuttals, the creationist would actually say "Since no one even replied to my post...", which we all found to be completely bizarre. We'd point out that yes, we did reply to the posts, and the person would just repeat that no one had replied. It was so bad that one person eventually put it as "I don't think you understand the difference between truth and a lie", which eventually led to a significant admission from the creationist....to her, anything that agrees with and supports scripture is "truth" and anything that conflicts with, or otherwise casts doubt on scripture is "a lie".
That was quite a revelation to me, and when I think of my experiences with our church and my family members, it explains a lot. Questioning what I was being told was seen as a form of doubt, rather than as genuine curiosity, and as such was something that needed to be quashed right away. That's why Sunday sermons don't have a 10 minute Q&A session at the end.
I think many debates show these patterns as well as similar ones, which I'll leave as an exercise for the reader (cue the search function causing a spike in the server's CPU usage).
LOL! Thanks for the thoughtful reply!

Being apathetic is great....or not. I don't really care.