Rufus21 wrote:
BusB wrote:The truth is that they knew full well that they were choosing to do wrong.
How could they know that when they didn't know the difference between right and wrong?
They had lived with God's presence and he had been teaching them the same as your parents taught you and my parents taught me.
I remember those early days vividly. I remember that I did not have to toy with premarital sex to know it was wrong and I stood my ground, staying chaste until after the age of 18 when I let bad association cause me to go against what I knew was right.
Prior to that age I had countless times tried to be seduced by young woman who due to a lack of proper up-bringing were puzzled that I didn't lust after them as did other boys. In a way my values made me a target but that I was fully able to handle and resist.
It was my male friends who after the age of 18 got me to violate my values so as to measure up among my ill-chosen peers. And, like Eve, I understood fully that what I chose to do was wrong, even though I had never before dabbled in it.
That is how to be honest with one's self. Say it how it was and don't make any excuses. Nothing does excuse our going against what we know to be right. It is a mercy of God that he is even willing to forgive us for it.
Edit: And before anyone asks if I am gay, let me just say that if I were it would be setting a new president, for, I have never in my life felt even the slightest attraction for other men.
I have always felt that the best thing God ever created for man was woman. And I have all my life felt that so intensely that once I caved against my belief that pre-marital sex was wrong, it unleashed quite a huge problem for me. My lust for women became what seemed impossible to control so as to return back to my previous state of chastity.