Is Kinky Sex Wrong?

Merv · Post by **Merv** » Fri Oct 06, 2006 9:28 am

I've heard people say that kinky sex is a perversion of God's design for sex. But then again, I've also heard a few people say that anything can go in the bedroom so long as it's still between the married man and the woman.

I don't think the Bible ever stated that kinky sex between married people is bad. Does the Bible even state that general lust between married people is bad for that matter?

So where's the real truth of that? Is kinky sex wrong?

Madeline · Post by **Madeline** » Wed Oct 18, 2006 10:05 pm

McCulloch wrote:Some Christians claim that sex is only for procreation. Leviticus seems to back up that claim by banning sex during and for a period of time after menstruation.

I believe that the levitical laws apply only to the Jews!

Love,
Madeline

Noachian · Post by **Noachian** » Thu Oct 19, 2006 4:32 am

No it isnt, Paul states that anything that goes in the bedroom is goood aslong as it is within marrige and mutual love.

Madeline · Post by **Madeline** » Thu Oct 19, 2006 8:41 am

I think that some forms of 'Kinky Sex' is just wrong, e.g., Sadomascochism! If people enjoy being tortured then they'll most likely get their request granted in the eternal fires of hell where they can scream all they want. God intended us to love each other, not spank, whip and tie each other up and blindfold them.

Love,
Madeline

McCulloch · Post by **McCulloch** » Thu Oct 19, 2006 9:52 am

Noachian wrote:Paul states that anything that goes in the bedroom is good as long as it is within marriage and mutual love.

Where is that stated?

McCulloch wrote:Some Christians claim that sex is only for procreation. Leviticus seems to back up that claim by banning sex during and for a period of time after menstruation.

Madeline wrote:I believe that the levitical laws apply only to the Jews!

You are correct that most Christians believe that God's rules are seldom universal. Common Christian theology does exclude these rules from being binding on the faithful today.
My point, however, was that this particular rule seems to indicate that the God believes that sex should only be for procreation. Not proof per se, but an indication of God's will. The burden of proof now seems to be on those who would claim otherwise.

Arbela · Post by **Arbela** » Tue Oct 31, 2006 7:29 pm

Madeline wrote:I think that some forms of 'Kinky Sex' is just wrong, e.g., Sadomascochism!

I've met some people into S&M. They actually seemed to have very close, stable relationships. I think their sex life requires quite a bit of communication and trust, maybe more so than the average couple. I don't know. In any case, they were good people.

pyrite · Post by **pyrite** » Thu Nov 02, 2006 8:59 pm

kiwimac wrote:Simple answer is: No!

Paul says that the Marriage bed is undefiled which pretty much means anything goes as long as it is consensual.

ditto from here

have fun merv

Galphanore · Post by **Galphanore** » Wed Nov 08, 2006 11:58 am

Madeline wrote:I think that some forms of 'Kinky Sex' is just wrong, e.g., Sadomascochism! If people enjoy being tortured then they'll most likely get their request granted in the eternal fires of hell where they can scream all they want. God intended us to love each other, not spank, whip and tie each other up and blindfold them.

Love,
Madeline

What made you come to that conclusion?

Lainey · Post by **Lainey** » Sat Nov 11, 2006 1:35 am

Madeline wrote:I think that some forms of 'Kinky Sex' is just wrong, e.g., Sadomascochism! If people enjoy being tortured then they'll most likely get their request granted in the eternal fires of hell where they can scream all they want. God intended us to love each other, not spank, whip and tie each other up and blindfold them.

Love,
Madeline

Interesting, Madeline. What do you make of this then?

Lainey · Post by **Lainey** » Sat Nov 11, 2006 3:02 am

Madeline wrote:I think that some forms of 'Kinky Sex' is just wrong, e.g., Sadomascochism! If people enjoy being tortured then they'll most likely get their request granted in the eternal fires of hell where they can scream all they want. God intended us to love each other, not spank, whip and tie each other up and blindfold them.

Love,
Madeline

Interesting, Madeline. What do you make of this then?

melikio · Post by **melikio** » Sat Nov 11, 2006 3:33 pm

Ok, let's face it:

People do all kinds of things (sexually) that have little to nothing to do with making a "baby".

With sex, I think there are two parameters that must be regarded:

1. Legal Consent

2. Taking RESPONSIBILITY for whatever consequences might be generated by any particular act.

Other than that, I can't help but think it's futile to define this/that sexual act as right/wrong.

-Mel-

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