Homosexuality

blondiefreak890 · Post by **blondiefreak890** » Mon Jun 13, 2005 11:37 pm

Ok ive recently been broken up w/ by my gf.(yes im bisexual)I dont really kno y she broke up but she said sumthin about this guy getting up and talking in church camp.He explain how its wrong and sinful and ppl shouldnt do it or be involved w/ the opposite sex.I dont understand because its her choice not hes and i no he had a right to get up thier and say it but its not his choice its hers.Why should he say something like that when its defently not his choice?

c2u · Post by **c2u** » Mon Jun 19, 2006 5:33 am

Hi! About the question of whether a person should voice their opinion based on someone elses choice, well, it depends. it depends on what 'he' is, for example, if this person is from a church and he is preaching, he is suppose to 'spread the word of god', so to speak. if i'm not mistaken, the word of god goes against homosexuality. mabe that girl wanted to listen to god and be 'good' in his eyes.

also, if for example someone wants to kill someone else and they tell me, i would want to stop them and to do that i have to voice my opinion on the killing of someone. if that person chose to kill and in my eyes it is wrong, i will try to stop them. it is then that person choice to whether to listen to me or not to. at the end of the day, they have to make their own choice. i can't force anybody to listen to me because they have their own views and beliefs that adhere to. i can't change those views unless they want listen to what i say and if they want to change and will themselves to change.

i hope this helps, if not send a reply!
bye bye!

c2u · Post by **c2u** » Tue Jun 20, 2006 5:04 am

So, it's wrong for some guy to talk about his opinion of right and wrong because of the choices someone else made?[/quote]

Well, no because that person has the right to voice his opinion on any issues. He is allowed to 'educate' or better yet 'guide' someone with his own views, if that person want him to do it. However, that person who asked for the guidance should go to that person and listen and then, shift through the information that was given and decided on what she wants to take in or what not to. It is her choice to listen to that person or not to. If she wants to listen to that person then it should be on her own free will.

I hope that helps!

c2u

seen da light · Post by **seen da light** » Tue Jun 20, 2006 5:57 am

what are you on about c2u?
clarify what you are saying please...
God bless

seen da light · Post by **seen da light** » Tue Jun 20, 2006 6:54 am

yes it is her choice and she made it in line with god's word.Why are you trying to shoot the messenger?

He was preaching the word of God. If she believes it, why are you attacking this man's right to preach.Clearly, you should discuss this further with your ex-girl friend.
Also, why are you still bi?You should be walking in faith with god and he will give you the strength to come out of this sexual sin

May god be with you and Bless you through this troubled time

kiwimac · Post by **kiwimac** » Wed Jun 21, 2006 6:50 am

Bisexuality is not a sexual sin.

Kiwimac

c2u · Post by **c2u** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 2:53 am

kiwimac wrote:Bisexuality is not a sexual sin.
in who eyes is it not a sin? in your eyes or in the eyes of god because i know that it is infact a sin to be bisexual!

Cathar1950 · Post by **Cathar1950** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 3:00 am

in who eyes is it not a sin? in your eyes or in the eyes of god because i know that it is infact a sin to be bisexual!

You do do you and how do you know that?
If you say the bible then how do you know that that is right and that is what you mean?
It seems that sexuality is a continuum like a bell curve. Our sexuality is all over that curve but more pronounced in some areas.

kiwimac · Post by **kiwimac** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 3:12 am

C2u,

Care to show me the verse?

Kiwimac

Vianne · Post by **Vianne** » Thu Jun 29, 2006 8:29 am

kiwimac wrote:C2u,

Care to show me the verse?

Kiwimac

Yes, I'd like to see it as well!

Both homosexuality and bisexuality have a functional role in society. They create built-in foster parents for orphaned or unwanted offspring. And both are widely seen in all levels of the animal kingdom.

Same-gender relations were prohibited in the Bible for reasons that make sense if you take their culture into context. It was a patriarchal tribal society with a high infant mortality rate. People had swarms of children (and multiple wives) in order to increase the odds that some of their children would survive to adulthood, thereby creating a workforce to handle the family, as well as ensure an heir.

Obviously same-gender relations make procreation impossible (in that time at least). In a society where population was so desperately needed, it it easy to see why a tribal leader might prohibit any behavior that was contrary to this goal. Hygiene, too, was a factor -- in a land with little access to sanitation, infection could easily spread due to the nature of certain homosexual behaviors. (This was also the reason behind many of the dietary laws.)

Fortunately, we are no longer Biblical-era tribal nomads, we do have access to soap and water, and we now know that human sexuality is a much more complex issue than "either you're straight or you're deranged".