2ndRateMind wrote:
And doing what is right arises out of universal and unconditional love.
I disagree that what is right arises from universal or unconditional love. Doing what is right can actually arise from pure selfish interests. No need to love anyone other than yourself. That alone is a sufficient reason to do what is right.
People who think they can do wrong things and not be negatively affected by them are simply mistaken.
Also, there is no such thing as unconditional love. Jesus most certainly never offered anyone unconditional love. According to Christian theology there are tons of conditions placed on Jesus' love. Same is true for Yahweh.
A person does not need to have unconditional love for anyone in order to do what's right.
Also, when it come to arguing over the definition of ethics, all that really boils down to is arguing over what people see as being right or wrong. We know that there are no absolutes in this area. So many things that we subjectively judge to be right or wrong amount to nothing more than personal subjective opinions.
You and I may not agree on what's right or wrong in various situations. In fact, I take the position that many actions are neither right nor wrong. They simply don't need to be categorized or judged in that manner.
Obviously if I like cherry ice cream and dislike chocolate, while you feel precisely the opposite this doesn't make either one of us right or wrong. We simply have two different subjective judgements on taste.
Once we realize this, the same can be applied to many other preferences.
For example, is it ethical for two people of the same sex to marriage and have a physical intimate relationship. I would personally say that it doesn't matter. In other words, it's not something that we even bother to need to label as being right or wrong.
You, on the other hand, may have a different opinion on that.
But clearly in this case right and wrong comes down to personal opinion.
There are no absolutes.
We even recognize that killing someone is not absolutely wrong. We only call it "murder" when we feel that it was wrong. If we don't feel that it was wrong, then we don't call it murder.
So many things are based upon subjective opinion, and love doesn't even come into play at all. Much less any need for unconditional love which no one has ever exhibited, including Jesus.