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This thread was spawned by a discussion here: http://debatingchristianity.com/forum/v ... 574#222574
Hi Final, Good to hear from you friend. I would say a couple of things about praying. Some things take a long time. Other's are right away. Not only is the act of praying an art of becoming completly sincere. The act of receiving the answer is an art of becoming receptive and intuitive to the many ways an answer may reach you. You may have heard this many times Final. But it is something that takes a while to distinguish.
Actually, despite talking to pastors and such, I've never been told that.
I also think that sometimes the involvement of someone else helps for some reason. I think the reason is to show that co-operative effort is more valuable than solo effort. We are here for each other is one of the simplest and hardest lessons to learn. But in time the profundity of that concept, in regards to being God like or doing God's Will, is not Lost on one. Very Happy Here's a few things to consider about Prayer that may help in the success of One's test. I think one of the most important things is, "If at first you don't succeed, try try again."
Indeed, and I at one point prayed for the same thing day after day for easily over a month. The content of the prayer I don't wish to be public, so if you think it is relevant, Pm me.
Aside from all that is superself in the experience of praying, it should be remembered that ethical prayer is a splendid way to elevate one's ego and reinforce the self for better living and higher attainment. Prayer induces the human ego to look both ways for help: for material aid to the subconscious reservoir of mortal experience, for inspiration and guidance to the superconscious borders of the contact of the material with the spiritual
I can't dispute that, as I don't have the info, and wouldn't care to anyway. I would state however, that my purpose in prayer was only rarely psychological(during the time I was suffering from major depression, prayed for help, and then bad things happened to me/my family)
No prayer can be ethical when the petitioner seeks for selfish advantage over his fellows. Selfish and materialistic praying is incompatible with the ethical religions which are predicated on unselfish and divine love. All such unethical praying reverts to the primitive levels of pseudo magic and is unworthy of advancing civilizations and enlightened religions. Selfish praying transgresses the spirit of all ethics founded on loving justice.

In all your praying be fair; do not expect God to show partiality, to love you more than his other children, your friends, neighbors, even enemies....Egoistic prayers involve confessions and petitions and often consist in requests for material favors. Prayer is somewhat more ethical when it deals with forgiveness and seeks wisdom for enhanced self-control.

While the nonselfish type of prayer is strengthening and comforting, materialistic praying is destined to bring disappointment and disillusionment as advancing scientific discoveries demonstrate that man lives in a physical universe of law and order. The childhood of an individual or a race is characterized by primitive, selfish, and materialistic praying. And, to a certain extent, all such petitions are efficacious in that they unvaryingly lead to those efforts and exertions which are contributory to achieving the answers to such prayers. The real prayer of faith always contributes to the augmentation of the technique of living, even if such petitions are not worthy of spiritual recognition.
To clarify, my prayers were never materialistic(not that I think you are saying they are). I am very much not a materialistic person. Objects, things don't matter to me. People matter to me. Nature matters to me.

My prayers also were not selfish, unless you count "Please God, save me. I don't have the strength to save myself." as selfish. (again. back when I was very depressed.)

from your phrasing above, it almost seems as if one cannot pray for anything that you could possibly be able to tell if it were answered. if you cannot pray for petitions, then you do not seem able to ask for anything, and praying for self-characteristics is not possible to detect answers on, and most likely an answer would be meaningless anyway, as, by your account, praying for it will cause you to develop it yourself anyway.
Prayer must never be so prostituted as to become a substitute for action. All ethical prayer is a stimulus to action and a guide to the progressive striving for idealistic goals of superself-attainment.
How does this apply to prayers for something that you cannot possibly affect yourself. I never prayed for anything I thought I could effect myself, because it would seem ridiculous and lazy.
If you would like to try an experiment with me either on thread or via PM I would be more than amenable to such a joint effort. Peace be with you friend.
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Nilloc James wrote:Alrgith I understand your position, now I'm curious of how we go from god like beleif to the religions we have now.
Organized Religions effort to preserve what they thought was TRUE and than trying to impose their understanding of truth on others. Religion is personal NOT ORGANIZED. Than corruption within Organized Religion came along to serve Human greed, pride and power.

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joer wrote:
Nilloc James wrote:Alrgith I understand your position, now I'm curious of how we go from god like beleif to the religions we have now.
Organized Religions effort to preserve what they thought was TRUE and than trying to impose their understanding of truth on others. Religion is personal NOT ORGANIZED. Than corruption within Organized Religion came along to serve Human greed, pride and power.
Religion is the codification of someone else's spiritual experience.
"Whatever you are totally ignorant of, assert to be the explanation of everything else"

William James quoting Dr. Hodgson

"When I see I am nothing, that is wisdom. When I see I am everything, that is love. My life is a movement between these two."

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bernee51 wrote:
joer wrote:
Nilloc James wrote:Alrgith I understand your position, now I'm curious of how we go from god like beleif to the religions we have now.
Organized Religions effort to preserve what they thought was TRUE and than trying to impose their understanding of truth on others. Religion is personal NOT ORGANIZED. Than corruption within Organized Religion came along to serve Human greed, pride and power.
Religion is the codification of someone else's spiritual experience.
Peace be with you Bernee. Consider the following in terms of WHAT Religion REALLY is. :D

Time is an invariable element in the attainment of knowledge; religion makes its endowments immediately available, albeit there is the important factor of growth in grace, definite advancement in all phases of religious experience. Knowledge is an eternal quest; always are you learning, but never are you able to arrive at the full knowledge of absolute truth. In knowledge alone there can never be absolute certainty, only increasing probability of approximation; but the religious soul of spiritual illumination knows, and knows now. And yet this profound and positive certitude does not lead such a sound-minded religionist to take any less interest in the ups and downs of the progress of human wisdom, which is bound up on its material end with the developments of slow-moving science.

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joer wrote:
bernee51 wrote:
joer wrote:
Nilloc James wrote:Alrgith I understand your position, now I'm curious of how we go from god like beleif to the religions we have now.
Organized Religions effort to preserve what they thought was TRUE and than trying to impose their understanding of truth on others. Religion is personal NOT ORGANIZED. Than corruption within Organized Religion came along to serve Human greed, pride and power.
Religion is the codification of someone else's spiritual experience.
Peace be with you Bernee. Consider the following in terms of WHAT Religion REALLY is. :D
Do you mean this is what you believe religion really is...or what religion really is for you?
joer wrote: Time is an invariable element in the attainment of knowledge; …
For me an aspect of knowledge is a realization that time, like religion, is a human construct.
joer wrote: …religion makes its endowments immediately available,
That’s right - as soon something is believed it can have an affect on the believer.
joer wrote:[. Knowledge is an eternal quest; always are you learning, but never are you able to arrive at the full knowledge of absolute truth.[


Makes one ponder the reality of ‘absolute proof’ does it not?

joer wrote:…
but the religious soul of spiritual illumination[ knows, and knows now


I would suggest – believes and believes now would be a more accurate description.
"Whatever you are totally ignorant of, assert to be the explanation of everything else"

William James quoting Dr. Hodgson

"When I see I am nothing, that is wisdom. When I see I am everything, that is love. My life is a movement between these two."

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FinalEnigma wrote:This thread was spawned by a discussion here: http://debatingchristianity.com/forum/v ... 574#222574
Hi Final, Good to hear from you friend. I would say a couple of things about praying. Some things take a long time. Other's are right away. Not only is the act of praying an art of becoming completly sincere. The act of receiving the answer is an art of becoming receptive and intuitive to the many ways an answer may reach you. You may have heard this many times Final. But it is something that takes a while to distinguish.
Actually, despite talking to pastors and such, I've never been told that.
I also think that sometimes the involvement of someone else helps for some reason. I think the reason is to show that co-operative effort is more valuable than solo effort. We are here for each other is one of the simplest and hardest lessons to learn. But in time the profundity of that concept, in regards to being God like or doing God's Will, is not Lost on one. Very Happy Here's a few things to consider about Prayer that may help in the success of One's test. I think one of the most important things is, "If at first you don't succeed, try try again."
Indeed, and I at one point prayed for the same thing day after day for easily over a month. The content of the prayer I don't wish to be public, so if you think it is relevant, Pm me.
Aside from all that is superself in the experience of praying, it should be remembered that ethical prayer is a splendid way to elevate one's ego and reinforce the self for better living and higher attainment. Prayer induces the human ego to look both ways for help: for material aid to the subconscious reservoir of mortal experience, for inspiration and guidance to the superconscious borders of the contact of the material with the spiritual
I can't dispute that, as I don't have the info, and wouldn't care to anyway. I would state however, that my purpose in prayer was only rarely psychological(during the time I was suffering from major depression, prayed for help, and then bad things happened to me/my family)
No prayer can be ethical when the petitioner seeks for selfish advantage over his fellows. Selfish and materialistic praying is incompatible with the ethical religions which are predicated on unselfish and divine love. All such unethical praying reverts to the primitive levels of pseudo magic and is unworthy of advancing civilizations and enlightened religions. Selfish praying transgresses the spirit of all ethics founded on loving justice.

In all your praying be fair; do not expect God to show partiality, to love you more than his other children, your friends, neighbors, even enemies....Egoistic prayers involve confessions and petitions and often consist in requests for material favors. Prayer is somewhat more ethical when it deals with forgiveness and seeks wisdom for enhanced self-control.

While the nonselfish type of prayer is strengthening and comforting, materialistic praying is destined to bring disappointment and disillusionment as advancing scientific discoveries demonstrate that man lives in a physical universe of law and order. The childhood of an individual or a race is characterized by primitive, selfish, and materialistic praying. And, to a certain extent, all such petitions are efficacious in that they unvaryingly lead to those efforts and exertions which are contributory to achieving the answers to such prayers. The real prayer of faith always contributes to the augmentation of the technique of living, even if such petitions are not worthy of spiritual recognition.
To clarify, my prayers were never materialistic(not that I think you are saying they are). I am very much not a materialistic person. Objects, things don't matter to me. People matter to me. Nature matters to me.

My prayers also were not selfish, unless you count "Please God, save me. I don't have the strength to save myself." as selfish. (again. back when I was very depressed.)

from your phrasing above, it almost seems as if one cannot pray for anything that you could possibly be able to tell if it were answered. if you cannot pray for petitions, then you do not seem able to ask for anything, and praying for self-characteristics is not possible to detect answers on, and most likely an answer would be meaningless anyway, as, by your account, praying for it will cause you to develop it yourself anyway.
Prayer must never be so prostituted as to become a substitute for action. All ethical prayer is a stimulus to action and a guide to the progressive striving for idealistic goals of superself-attainment.
How does this apply to prayers for something that you cannot possibly affect yourself. I never prayed for anything I thought I could effect myself, because it would seem ridiculous and lazy.
If you would like to try an experiment with me either on thread or via PM I would be more than amenable to such a joint effort. Peace be with you friend.
Potentially possible, but i want to understand before I would do so.
I left this lengthly discussion because I think it is relevant.

Prayer seems to me, to be very personal, and I normally don't like to discuss it because even in mentioning it, we seem to minimize its importance to us and its importance at all. But here's what happened to me:

In October of last year (on the weekend of my anniversary) I began having CRAZY back pain. Nothing like I've ever experienced in my life. I am pretty active (walking, hiking and doing huge landscape projects here at home) And I have never had any pain like this. I mean it was awful - I couldn't sit right, couldn't walk right, couldn't sleep right - nothing! When it first began, it was very painful and slowly got worse over time.

The next several months were spent trying to figure out what happened. I did absolutely nothing to bring this about. Had no injury from working in the yard, no sports-related injury. I could think of nothing that caused this, and trust me - I wracked my brain ! We bought a new mattress, I switched pillows, stopped using the riding mower. No more landscaping projects. I quit everything that I thought could be the culprit!

I would wake up and my first thought was " how bad is it today? can I drive?" I mean it was that bad. Awful dark cloud just hanging over me day in and day out.

After trying to think of everything and doing all I could possibly think of, I just accepted that maybe I had a 'bad back'. Awful - I'm only 44 years old! I didn't want to be that person. We all know them - can't do anything because of their back problems. Terrible way to live. I can attest to this, because I lived it for a total of 4 months.

Went to the DR. for this issue. She tested a bunch of stuff - my reflexes, asked me what I had been doing physically, etc. Gave me some anti-inflammitories, which didn't work at all. Said to call her in a week if there was no improvement. There wasn't, but I hate going there, so I never called.

One day my back pain was soooo bad. I was crying - and for the first time, I just really prayed! I never pray for myself - just not my way. It's not that I'm completely 'unselfish' - it's just that I fully realize, that relatively, I have so much and I do not dare ask for more. But, I couldn't live like this any longer. My pain was so bad, I asked God to "help me figure out what caused this". Didn't ask to be healed. (Nobody poured oil on me or anything)

Anyway, almost right away, a thought came to me. I remembered that in August, I started taking thyroid medicine. I never thought this would have been the cause as it was not listed on the table of side-effects. And, even then, my dosage was the lowest possible dosage available because my DR. said my thyroid was barely in need of it.

So, I checked on-line and after much searching, I found some blogs written by people that had experienced back pain from this same medicine. Well, I couldn't believe it. Less than 1% of patients experience back pain from these meds. So, I quit taking the meds. (to me, this was a no-brainer. My back pain was a far worse problem than figuring out a new med later) Well, 2 weeks later, after the effects from the medication left my body, my back pain was gone. Yep - totally gone. And has been for 2 months now. Which is really nice timing because I'm getting ready to sit on a plane to Italy, which is a 9 hr plane ride for me. I almost didn't go on this trip with my husband because of the pain issue.

Now, I fully understand the thought that this could've been a coincidence. I just happened to remember about the meds right after I prayed. I get that. Just to remind anyone reading this.......... I went over this for MONTHS trying to find the reason for it. I mean I spent hours each day, trust me!

And - don't think you don't find out who your real freinds are, when something is wrong. I know people got sick of me talking about my stupid back pain - I got sick of hearing myself.

So, long story, I know. Just thought I'd share....take it for what it's worth to you. For me, this has been an eye-opening experience of what God can do.

Final Enigma - I can't understand how you can pray to a God you don't believe in. I am in no way a judge on this, but I think it may be a significant point.

In reading over this, I want to make it clear that I in no way think that I am special, or worthy of answered prayer. I can only guess that in some way perhaps God valued my trying to find the problem on my own, using the gifts He's given me, IMHO.

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I don't discount your experience, but I don't see it as really conclusive. this may be skepticism speaking,, however.

regarding praying to a God I don't believe in, that wasn't precisely the case. I haven't always been an atheist. I'm not sure if you were around back then, but for a good while I was in the agnostic usergroup.

at the times when I prayed, I was basically lost. I didn't know what to believe, and was looking for something to depend on. God did not provide, or I would be a theist. The only conclusion I can come to is that if God exists, he turned his back on me.

Even if I were to believe in him, why would I worship him?
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Final How are you doing Final? Hope your are well.

I noticed the post from Justifyothers and it reminded me of myself in many ways. You pray for others and you don't often pray for yourself. I like Justify prayed for myself once after going to the doctors and having a very painful experience. Here's a brief excerpt of that experience. It's from the Holy Huddle Room. If you'd care too, take a look at that thread. It was a prayer thread AlexiaRose had requested for her mom. If you read the last two pages on that thread I think you can see some of the dynamics of the frustration AND possible results of prayer. Do you see that report of justify about the "thought" that entered Jusitfied's mind? that's how if works ALOT of the time. A "thought" BUT there's something about the thought that is distinctive. After testing you can see the "Thought" that is the answer to your prayer as 'different" than other thoughts.

And sure with natural doubting you can always say it would have come anyway and a lot of other excuses about coincidence. But there's comes a point where that doubt is overcome. And weather it is coincidental or not. The improvement of your condition is unmistakable. It could be as I've mentioned JUST AN IMPROVEMENT IN ATTITUDE. But it's a definite change for the better. Check out the link. let me know if you'd be interested in trying something like that. Oh Yeah. Notice how long the praying went on.

Peace Final. Good Will to you. :D



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I used to pray a lot for others. But never for myself. I felt I deserved to suffer because of all the wrong I did. One night while in terrible pain (a kidney stone passing) I prayed for my own relief for the first time in my life. I didn't feel like I deserved it but ask God (Jesus) to help me anyway. After days of not being able to find any position in which I could find relief from the pain, 20 minutes after I prayed I was pain free and I didn't move and went into a restful sleep. Since then it's been 5 or 6 years now, I've sensed I've been opened to being healed and have had healing in many ways.

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joer wrote:Final How are you doing Final? Hope your are well.
My am well (sorry, had to tease you for your typo). Extremely busy with school though. I had a short story I was doing for class due yesterday, but my hard drive died and I lost it, so I wrote a poem, since they take less time. I've also got a presentation on faerie queen due tomorrow, an 8 page research paper on Sula due next week, and after spring break I have to turn my presentation into a paper on faerie queen.
I noticed the post from Justifyothers and it reminded me of myself in many ways. You pray for others and you don't often pray for yourself. I like Justify prayed for myself once after going to the doctors and having a very painful experience. Here's a brief excerpt of that experience. It's from the Holy Huddle Room. If you'd care too, take a look at that thread. It was a prayer thread AlexiaRose had requested for her mom. If you read the last two pages on that thread I think you can see some of the dynamics of the frustration AND possible results of prayer. Do you see that report of justify about the "thought" that entered Jusitfied's mind? that's how if works ALOT of the time. A "thought" BUT there's something about the thought that is distinctive. After testing you can see the "Thought" that is the answer to your prayer as 'different" than other thoughts.

And sure with natural doubting you can always say it would have come anyway and a lot of other excuses about coincidence. But there's comes a point where that doubt is overcome. And weather it is coincidental or not. The improvement of your condition is unmistakable. It could be as I've mentioned JUST AN IMPROVEMENT IN ATTITUDE. But it's a definite change for the better. Check out the link. let me know if you'd be interested in trying something like that. Oh Yeah. Notice how long the praying went on.

Peace Final. Good Will to you. :D



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Post 22: Wed Apr 16, 2008 2:45 am

I used to pray a lot for others. But never for myself. I felt I deserved to suffer because of all the wrong I did. One night while in terrible pain (a kidney stone passing) I prayed for my own relief for the first time in my life. I didn't feel like I deserved it but ask God (Jesus) to help me anyway. After days of not being able to find any position in which I could find relief from the pain, 20 minutes after I prayed I was pain free and I didn't move and went into a restful sleep. Since then it's been 5 or 6 years now, I've sensed I've been opened to being healed and have had healing in many ways.
Pming you 'bout something...
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Final wrote:
Pming you 'bout something...
Thank You Final, I got it.

Good Will to you and all on this thread and at this site.

Peace be with you all. :D

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Final FYI. per yer request in that other thread:
Spirit-Gravity from another site:

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Posted: Sun Jan 11, 2009 5:49 pm
Iris wrote:p84:2 7:3.2 The spiritual-gravity pull of the Eternal Son constitutes the inherent secret of the Paradise ascension of surviving human souls. All genuine spirit values and all bona fide spiritualized individuals are held within the unfailing grasp of the spiritual gravity of the Eternal Son. The mortal mind, for example, initiates its career as a material mechanism and is eventually mustered into the Corps of the Finality as a well-nigh perfected spirit existence, becoming progressively less subject to material gravity and correspondingly more responsive to the inward pulling urge of spirit gravity during this entire experience. The spirit-gravity circuit literally pulls the soul of man Paradiseward.


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Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 5:57 am
Iris wrote:The spirit-gravity circuit is the basic channel for transmitting the genuine prayers of the believing human heart from the level of human consciousness to the actual consciousness of Deity. That which represents true spiritual value in your petitions will be seized by the universal circuit of spirit gravity and will pass immediately and simultaneously to all divine personalities concerned. Each will occupy himself with that which belongs to his personal province. Therefore, in your practical religious experience, it is immaterial whether, in addressing your supplications, you visualize the Creator Son of your local universe or the Eternal Son at the center of all things. 84:02-03

Spirit-gravity pull and response thereto operate not only on the universe as a whole but also even between individuals and groups of individuals. There is a spiritual cohesiveness among the spiritual and spiritized personalities of any world, race, nation, or believing group of individuals. There is a direct attractiveness of a spirit nature between spiritually minded persons of like tastes and longings. The term kindred spirits is not wholly a figure of speech.82:04-05

The indwelling Father fragment adjusts the human mind to progressively divine attitudes, whereupon such an ascending mind becomes increasingly responsive to the spiritual drawing power of the all-powerful spirit-gravity circuit of the Second Source and Center.76:03-06


Peace be with you my friend.

If we can't believe the simpler stuff how will we ever get to the more complicated stuff?

If we only believe in that which has been Objectively proven than we must be resigned to wait until more of what we know is there to be probed understand and objectified. Like Dark Matter and Dark Energy. Just as there are material realities that exists but remain to be proven, So are their Spiritual relities that exist and are waiting to be proven in our experience. :D
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