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Arguing hard against Christianity = Not wanting to believe?

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In another thread, these comments were made to another member:
justifyothers wrote: The reason I can't understand that you are struggling TO believe is because you argue so strongly against the idea. I mean, you don't just raise questions or throw up a mental block now & then - you really argue hard, opposing any possibility, from what I can see on this forum.
The person this was said to said that they were struggling to believe in God, where is Justifyothers believes he is trying not to believe.

So, if a skeptic argues very hard against religion, seeming not to back down, does that mean they don't want to believe? Does it mean they don't want to believe in God?

Society and its morals evolve and will continue to evolve. The bible however remains the same and just requires more and more apologetics and claims of "metaphors" and "symbolism" to justify it.

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This is what is so hard to debate about religious beliefs. Where good, reasonable, honorable people hold 'the faith', they can't understand why their religion could be blamed. When someone says, "You don't believe Jesus boy?" and proceeds to beat you to a pulp, who is to blame? Of course this is an individual acting, but he's doing so on what he believes to be God's orders. I have come to understand that the actions of the individual should not be placed on the group, but 'the group' has in the past not given a damn about what happens to non-believers. Religious texts condemn people who don't believe. They call us evil, foolish, unwise, reprobate, lacking morals, and on and on and on and on and on and on. Where is the line between what peoples' religious texts tell them, and the individual begins?
It is nigh on impossible to convince good people that folks have in the past, are currently, and will in the future act in horrible ways in the name of their God.
Are you aware that in Middle Eastern and Asian countries, and many other countries all over the world, Christians are the ones being beaten, tortured, and thrown in jail, just for owning a bible or having underground churches? There's a book called Jesus Freaks containing hundreds of stories of true events that are happening and have happened all over the world, just because people are Christians. I don't know if you're saying its Christians who do this kind of stuff or not, but if you are, you should read about what's happening to Christians all over the world too.
The bible says "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only son; that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have everlasting life". There have definately been times in the OT when God destroyed evil nations and killed evil people, but that doesn't mean everyone is "evil". I will without hesitation say that there are atheists, agnostics, etc. who are good people. But everyone, including me, has sinned. The point I'm trying to make is God doesn't want to condemn people, and he definately doesn't want Christians to cause damage. If someone is to blame, its the person, not the religion.
In your opinion those doing horrid acts in the name of religion are 'fools'. Are you aware that it is acceptable in these forums to quote Bible verses that claim atheists are fools? It is perfectly acceptable for someone to place in their signature that anyone who does not believe in God is a fool. This is accepted because God said so. Its accepted because its in someone's religious text. But call someone who believes in a God a retard ( a common, colloquial term meaning lacking common sense), and the condemnation is swift and sure.

I appreciate your take on the OP, but it does not address cases where folks have legitimate concerns about the accuracy of God claims. Let the record state that you disavow acts of barbarity done in God's name. But let the record also show these things occurred, and will occur again if we lose vigil. Religion will always claim those who disagree have not thought enough, tried enough, cared enough, given enough, prayed enough, tithed enough. It will always claim those who do not see God are somehow flawed. And all along it will dismiss anything that does not conform to its perception, facts be danged.
I do think those people are fools. And I think its foolish for a Christian to condemn someone for saying they're a retard. I also think its not very kind of the person saying they're a retard to say that.

Everyone is flawed. Its part of the human nature. Christians are flawed. The only difference between Christians and Atheists is that Christians believe that Jesus died for them, and Atheists don't believe in a God at all.
Nah, I've been able to see that all are human, all are capable of good and bad. What I see is claims for a god that are imperfect, fallible, and in many cases outright false.
I'm glad you don't have exceedingly high expectations of perfection for Christians.

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onefaith wrote: Are you aware that in Middle Eastern and Asian countries, and many other countries all over the world, Christians are the ones being beaten, tortured, and thrown in jail, just for owning a bible or having underground churches? There's a book called Jesus Freaks containing hundreds of stories of true events that are happening and have happened all over the world, just because people are Christians. I don't know if you're saying its Christians who do this kind of stuff or not, but if you are, you should read about what's happening to Christians all over the world too.
I suggest one day you travel to India (as I have - extensively) and see for yourself the damage done to many communities by those spreading the 'religion of peace and love'.
onefaith wrote: The bible says "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only son; that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have everlasting life". There have definately been times in the OT when God destroyed evil nations and killed evil people, but that doesn't mean everyone is "evil". I will without hesitation say that there are atheists, agnostics, etc. who are good people. But everyone, including me, has sinned.
Pardon me - pleases don't include me in your guilt trip of 'everyone has sinned"

I have not.
onefaith wrote: The point I'm trying to make is God doesn't want to condemn people, and he definately doesn't want Christians to cause damage. If someone is to blame, its the person, not the religion.
God made the person - according to you. The religion is in god's name.

Where should the buck stop?
onefaith wrote: Everyone is flawed. Its part of the human nature.
No everyone lives under an illusion. We are not flawed - it is human nature.

In fact - if we are emergent we are only as we can be. Anything that is 'only as it can be' is perfect.
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Re: Arguing hard against Christianity = Not wanting to belie

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OnceConvinced wrote:
So, if a skeptic argues very hard against religion, seeming not to back down, does that mean they don't want to believe? Does it mean they don't want to believe in God?
If someone told you that a rock was made out of liquid water would arguing hard against it mean you dont want to believe the rock was liquid water?

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OnceConvinced wrote:So, if a skeptic argues very hard against religion, seeming not to back down, does that mean they don't want to believe? Does it mean they don't want to believe in God?
No! It is just part of being a skeptic. We also argue very hard against those things we want to believe. If the claim survives intact after our best efforts to disprove it, then we have a degree of assurance that the claim is not false. This is the very essence of science. I might want to believe that there is a God. Or not. It is totally irrelevant to the question of whether or not there is God.
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Pardon me - pleases don't include me in your guilt trip of 'everyone has sinned"

I have not.
Romans 3:23 "For all have sinned and fallen short of the Glory of God". I am not giving you a guilt trip. I'm stating a fact.
Have you lied, even a little white lie?
Have you stolen anything?
Have you ever been selfish?
Have you ever been angry and done something rash because of it?
Have you ever said "Oh my God"?
Have you ever had sex outside of marriage?
Have you ever cheated?
Gossiped?
Hurt someone?
Been jealous of someone?
Wanted something you don't have?

There's a whole lot more sins, but I've listed enough. I've sinned, you've sinned, everybody has sinned. Saying you haven't is a lie, which is a sin. I'm not trying to include you in any guilt trip - if I were, I wouldn't have said that I have sinned. I'm also not trying to attack you.

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onefaith wrote:
joeyknuccione wrote:Considering the amount of damage done in the name of religion, I think it imperative that we argue strongly, loudly, and oftenly.
Christians make mistakes just like everyone else. If a Christian makes a mistake while trying to stand up for their religion, it is usually looked at as damage done in the name of their religion. But really, just because a person has a religion doens't mean that they can't make mistakes. Yes, some people really DO do damage in the name of their religion, but those people imo are fools. But I think simple mistakes shouldn't be considered damage in the name of their religion.
Its really hard for Christians because we're "supposed" to be "perfect" (even though we can't actually attain perfection) and we can't be. So people look at Christians and think we're hypocrites and such, when we're human like everyone else.
Well when I see someone accusing a Christian of being a hypocrite 95% of the time it is because they are accusing others of doing something that they consider wrong, then they do the same thing themselves. That's the real issue. eg one of the common things is for a Christian to claim that the unbeliever is too proud to accept his arguments. Yet that Christian is guilty of exactly the same thing.

That is hypocrisy at its most blatent and the sort of hypocrisy that riles people up.

Society and its morals evolve and will continue to evolve. The bible however remains the same and just requires more and more apologetics and claims of "metaphors" and "symbolism" to justify it.

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OnceConvinced wrote:
onefaith wrote:
joeyknuccione wrote:Considering the amount of damage done in the name of religion, I think it imperative that we argue strongly, loudly, and oftenly.
Christians make mistakes just like everyone else. If a Christian makes a mistake while trying to stand up for their religion, it is usually looked at as damage done in the name of their religion. But really, just because a person has a religion doens't mean that they can't make mistakes. Yes, some people really DO do damage in the name of their religion, but those people imo are fools. But I think simple mistakes shouldn't be considered damage in the name of their religion.
Its really hard for Christians because we're "supposed" to be "perfect" (even though we can't actually attain perfection) and we can't be. So people look at Christians and think we're hypocrites and such, when we're human like everyone else.
Well when I see someone accusing a Christian of being a hypocrite 95% of the time it is because they are accusing others of doing something that they consider wrong, then they do the same thing themselves. That's the real issue. eg one of the common things is for a Christian to claim that the unbeliever is too proud to accept his arguments. Yet that Christian is guilty of exactly the same thing.

That is hypocrisy at its most blatent and the sort of hypocrisy that riles people up.
Yeah I can see why that bothers people. I'm probably guilty of that myself, but I at least might be able to tell you why Christians are guilty of that kind of hypocrisy. The times I've noticed myself being a hypocrite, I would say something to someone like, you shouldn't lie, and then I would find myself lying later. The reason I would say don't lie to that person is because while I know that I sin all the time and that I sometimes lie, I don't want to just say "go ahead and do it", because I know that it doesn't make God happy. The problem is that I still sin, and because of that its hard for Christians to say to something to someone and then not end up doing it themselves. As I've said before, Christians aren't perfect either, and we mess up all the time. But sometimes the hypocrisy comes from caring about what happens to the other person.

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onefaith wrote:
Pardon me - pleases don't include me in your guilt trip of 'everyone has sinned"

I have not.
Romans 3:23 "For all have sinned and fallen short of the Glory of God". I am not giving you a guilt trip. I'm stating a fact.
Have you lied, even a little white lie?
Have you stolen anything?
Have you ever been selfish?
Have you ever been angry and done something rash because of it?
Have you ever said "Oh my God"?
Have you ever had sex outside of marriage?
Have you ever cheated?
Gossiped?
Hurt someone?
Been jealous of someone?
Wanted something you don't have?

There's a whole lot more sins, but I've listed enough. I've sinned, you've sinned, everybody has sinned. Saying you haven't is a lie, which is a sin. I'm not trying to include you in any guilt trip - if I were, I wouldn't have said that I have sinned. I'm also not trying to attack you.
That is Paul's opinion and means about as much as anyone and carries the same weight.
Other passages in the Bible call some humans righteous with no mention of being righteous because of faith which would be more like faithfulness or trust not belief.
Given the assumed nature of God by definition everything would fall short of the glory of God.

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OnceConvinced wrote:In another thread, these comments were made to another member:
justifyothers wrote: The reason I can't understand that you are struggling TO believe is because you argue so strongly against the idea. I mean, you don't just raise questions or throw up a mental block now & then - you really argue hard, opposing any possibility, from what I can see on this forum.
The person this was said to said that they were struggling to believe in God, where is Justifyothers believes he is trying not to believe.

So, if a skeptic argues very hard against religion, seeming not to back down, does that mean they don't want to believe? Does it mean they don't want to believe in God?
Why would one "want to believe"? This may be another thread in itself, but I think it's important to understand this before your OP can be answered.

If we could understand that we'd understand the correlation between wanting to believe and how one behaves.
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onefaith wrote:
Pardon me - pleases don't include me in your guilt trip of 'everyone has sinned"

I have not.
Romans 3:23 "For all have sinned and fallen short of the Glory of God". I am not giving you a guilt trip. I'm stating a fact.
Have you lied, even a little white lie?
Have you stolen anything?
Have you ever been selfish?
Have you ever been angry and done something rash because of it?
Have you ever said "Oh my God"?
Have you ever had sex outside of marriage?
Have you ever cheated?
Gossiped?
Hurt someone?
Been jealous of someone?
Wanted something you don't have?

There's a whole lot more sins, but I've listed enough. I've sinned, you've sinned, everybody has sinned. Saying you haven't is a lie, which is a sin. I'm not trying to include you in any guilt trip - if I were, I wouldn't have said that I have sinned. I'm also not trying to attack you.
The point is only the bible claims these things to be sins. The people who are talking about don't recognise many of those as "sins" but as natural human tendencies we are born with. Sin is purely a religious concept, much like the soul and the holy spirit are.

Society and its morals evolve and will continue to evolve. The bible however remains the same and just requires more and more apologetics and claims of "metaphors" and "symbolism" to justify it.

Prayer is like rubbing an old bottle and hoping that a genie will pop out and grant you three wishes.

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