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This is a gift for women .. i want to see your comments my dear friends
(women comments)
i want you to be happy .. you must read this essay to feel it


Paradise is for believing men and women.
We often hear speakers in Friday prayer or in admonitions talking about Paradise and all of us find our hearts, minds and thoughts tuned on to that 'frequency'. However, majority of the speakers talk about Paradise as if it were a house for men only. Reality is not like that. Paradise is for the believing men and women. The only price for it is sound belief in Allaah, love of Allaah and His Messenger salla Allaahu alaihi wa sallam, and obedience to Allaah and His Messenger salla Allaahu alaihi wa sallam.

In what follows are the glad tidings given by the Messenger of Allaah salla Allaahu alaihi wa sallam, to some of the women among his companions.


Narrated 'Aisha radhiya Allaahu anha: I did not feel jealous of any of the wives of the Prophet as much as I did of Khadija (although) she died before he married me, for I often heard him mentioning her, and Allaah had told him to give her the good tidings that she would have a palace of Qasab (i.e. pipes of precious stones and pearls in Paradise), and whenever he slaughtered a sheep, he would send her women-friends a good share of it. [Sahih al-Bukhari]
Anas reports that the Messenger of Allaah, salla Allaahu alaihi wa sallam, said: 'The best women of mankind are four: Mariam daughter of `Imraan, Assiya wife of Pharaoh, Khadija daughter of Khuwailid, and Fatima the daughter of the Messenger of Allaah.' [Bukhari and Muslim]
Narrated Abu Huraira: Jibreel (Gabriel) came to the Prophet and said, 'O Allaah's Apostle! This is Khadija coming to you with a dish having meat soup (or some food or drink). When she reaches you, greet her on behalf of her Lord (i.e. Allaah) and on my behalf, and give her the glad tidings of having a Qasab (palace in Paradise) wherein there will be neither any noise nor any fatigue (trouble).' [al-Bukhari]
Narrated 'Ata bin Abi Rabah: Ibn 'Abbas said to me, 'Shall I show you a woman of the people of Paradise?' I said, 'Yes.' He said, 'This black woman came to the Prophet and said, 'I get attacks of epilepsy and my body becomes uncovered; please invoke Allaah for me.' The Prophet said (to her), 'If you wish, be patient and you will have (enter) Paradise; and if you wish, I will invoke Allaah to cure you.' She said, 'I will remain patient,' and added, 'but I become uncovered, so please invoke Allaah for me that I may not become uncovered.' So he invoked Allaah for her.' [al-Bukhari]

The aforementioned ahadeeth clearly state the stature of some of the women given the glad tidings of Jannah (Paradise). What can the women of today do in order to achieve that pinnacle of success, Paradise?

To do so one MUST learn how these women lived, how they behaved, how they spoke, how they dressed, how they walked, etc. In this issue of al-Mu'minah we will try to learn from the black woman mentioned in the last Hadith, insha'Allaah. The black woman is not even known by her name, or her exact whereabouts, rather she is known by her deeds, her faith, her modesty, her chastity, and for her being an inmate of Paradise. And, in the end, that is what matters most. When Abdullah Ibn Abbas radhiya Allaahu anhu said 'this black woman', he did not mean to point at her race or to belittle her in any way. Indeed, he but meant to teach the people around him a great principle of Islam which is mentioned in the verse, [in the meaning of] : 'O people! We have created you from a man and a woman and made you into peoples and tribes so that you may know each other, verily the most honorable among you in the sight of Allaah are the most pious.'


The same principle is mentioned in the Hadith: 'Allaah does not look at your pictures (shapes) and bodies but He looks at your hearts (and your deeds).' [Muslim] She (the black woman) was physically sick, yet she sought cure in the du`a of the Messenger of Allaah, salla Allaahu alaihi wa sallam. She knew that the one who cures, ash-Shaafee, is Allaah, and Allaah would answer the du`a of His Messenger salla Allaahu alaihi wa sallam. We conclude from that that du`a heals all diseases be they of the body or of the heart. When commenting on this Hadith, al-Hafidh Ibn Hajar said: 'It is inferred from this hadith that the cure of diseases through du`a and supplication to Allaah (wa al-iltijaa' ilaa Allaah) is the most successful way of healing, but this cannot be fulfilled unless two conditions are satisfied: pure intention and sincere trust in the effectiveness of the du`a, and righteousness and reliance on Allaah.

The fact that the Prophet salla Allaahu alaihi wa sallam said: 'If you wish, be patient and you will have (enter) Paradise' is a proof for the virtue and reward of patience during sickness. In another Hadith, he, salla Allaahu alaihi wa sallam, says: 'Whenever a hardship affects the Muslim, he will be forgiven for it even when he is picked by a spike.' [Muslim]

And in another Hadith, also narrated by Muslim, Ummu as-Sa'ib cursed fever, to which the Prophet salla Allaahu alaihi wa sallam told her: 'Do not curse fever, for it takes away the sins like the blaze [fire] takes away the impurities of iron.' The black women preferred the suffering of this world to getting the eternal reward of Paradise! She suffered from sickness, yet her pain and discomfort did not force her to forego pleasing Allaah! And no matter who one is, if one is in the path of Allaah, one will encounter difficulties, because Paradise is rounded by hardships. If things are easy and life is rosy, then one must check oneself; are we following the true Islam? Especially in this western environment it may be difficult for a young woman to wear the dress of modesty, the hijab (even though it is mandatory), not to talk to men and keep away from them (which is also mandatory), except if necessary.

All these may be difficult to achieve for some in the beginning, but when one overcomes herself for the sake of Allaah, then all the other obstacles become baseless. So, how to overcome oneself? By knowing Allaah by His names and attributes; by loving and obeying Allaah and His Messenger, salla Allaahu alaihi wa sallam; and then the help of Allaah will come, insha'Allaah. She (the black woman) preferred being patient, but could not tolerate that her honor, her modesty and her chastity be damaged or even touched, nor that any part of her body be uncovered, though she had no control over it. Indeed she was a real slave and servant of Allaah; she was a faithful, a believer, a Muslimah, a righteous and pious woman, a truthful woman, and she was loyal to Allaah and His Messenger, salla Allaahu alaihi wa sallam. Not only having these awe-inspiring qualities, she was also a wise and a great woman, as her memorable words rang ...: '... but I become uncovered, so please invoke Allaah for me that I may not become uncovered.'

If words are to be written in Gold, these words should be written in gold ... Remember this simple equation:
Iman + Suffering + Patience = Paradise
It can also be inferred that the righteous Muslim woman inherently loves to be covered, loves modesty and chastity and hates revealing her body and her beauty. The black woman, radhiya Allaahu `anha could sustain being so sick but could not bear to be uncovered in front of people.

The issue, one must understand, is not of black or white or Arab or non-Arab, rich or poor, noble[with lineage] or not, it is rather of a creed so deeply rooted in the hearts of Muslims like blood flows in the arteries and veins of people. They are those who are totally committed to Islam. Fourteen Hundred years of history showed that Muslim women could sustain hunger, poverty, sickness but could never sustain disobeying Allaah. The wife would tell her husband when leaving for work: 'Fear Allaah in us, for we can sustain hunger and thirst but we cannot sustain Hell fire [i.e. do not acquire unlawful earning].'

Dear sisters, ask yourself what made Khadija radhiya Allaahu `anha be greeted by Allaah Subhanahu wa Ta`ala and by Jibreel alaihi as-Salaam. Ask yourself what made Khadija be rewarded a Palace in Jannah as no one can imagine. Reading the biography of Khadija and others like her in greatness, one would wish to be at their service; to carry their shoes, wash their clothes, to serve them in any possible way and get du`a from them. It is sad that we just don't know the great personalities of this Ummah. If only we strive to study the lives of the righteous that preceded us, we would find in them immense guidance for our existence, and if we know them and follow them we could be in the forefront of mankind ...

It is said, 'Iman (faith) is not by hope, it is rather what occurs in the heart and is proved by the deeds [maa waqa`a fil qalbi wa saddaqahul-`amal].' We leave you to think about this and pray to Allaah to make us all among the dwellers of Paradise and to bestow upon us the faith and the patience that lead us to Paradise. And to bless the present Muslim Ummah with many women like the black woman, radhiya Allaahu `anha (may Allaah be pleased with her), who help us focus on the straight path ...

Acknowledgment: Some of the ideas were expressed in an article written by Haled Abu Sail which appeared in the Da`wah magazine, Iss. 1514, page 32.


so when you embrace islam and follow that women you will get the paradise and you will be so happy because you did not get the hell
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Why, then, in other ahadîth does Muhammad claim that most of the people in hell will consist of women? And why does he equate, in status, women with black dogs?
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Pazuzu bin Hanbi wrote:Why, then, in other ahadîth does Muhammad claim that most of the people in hell will consist of women? And why does he equate, in status, women with black dogs?
By golly by gosh, that sounds like, like,.. a contradiction
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Check this out, for example:
Sahih Bukhari wrote:Virtues of the Prayer Hall (Sutra of the Musalla) - Volume 1 - Book 9:
490. Narrated 'Aisha:

The things which annul the prayers were mentioned before me. They said, "Prayer is annulled by a dog, a donkey and a woman (if they pass in front of the praying people)." I said, "You have made us (i.e. women) dogs. I saw the Prophet praying while I used to lie in my bed between him and the Qibla. Whenever I was in need of something, I would slip away. for I disliked to face him."
Or these:
Sahih Bukhari wrote:Fighting for the Cause of Allah (Jihaad) - Volume 4 - Book 52:
110. Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Umar:

I heard the Prophet saying. "Evil omen is in three things: The horse, the woman and the house."
Sahih Bukhari wrote:Fighting for the Cause of Allah (Jihaad) - Volume 4 - Book 52:
111. Narrated Sahl bin Sad Saidi:

Allah's Apostle said "If there is any evil omen in anything, then it is in the woman, the horse and the house."
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Pazuzu bin Hanbi wrote:Muhammad claim[s] that most of the people in hell will consist of women
Yo, check it:
Sahih Bukhari wrote:Beginning of Creation - Volume 4 - Book 54:
464. Narrated ‘Imran bin Husain:

The Prophet said, “I looked at Paradise and found poor people forming the majority of its inhabitants; and I looked at Hell and saw that the majority of its inhabitants were women.”
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Pazuzu bin Hanbi wrote:Why, then, in other ahadîth does Muhammad claim that most of the people in hell will consist of women? And why does he equate, in status, women with black dogs?

yes that is right most of the people in hell consist of women so i wrote that essay to learn women how they should be to win the paradise
also muslim women because they do not follow the orders of islam

please look at muslim women in the world
they took off the hijab ( head and face cover ) , they became whores , they became dancers in clubs ... etc

so they must care about that also they must follow aesha and khadijah and all of mohammed partners to win the paradise

so that is why mohammed peace be upon him said that
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Pazuzu bin Hanbi wrote:Check this out, for example:
Sahih Bukhari wrote:Virtues of the Prayer Hall (Sutra of the Musalla) - Volume 1 - Book 9:
490. Narrated 'Aisha:

The things which annul the prayers were mentioned before me. They said, "Prayer is annulled by a dog, a donkey and a woman (if they pass in front of the praying people)." I said, "You have made us (i.e. women) dogs. I saw the Prophet praying while I used to lie in my bed between him and the Qibla. Whenever I was in need of something, I would slip away. for I disliked to face him."
Or these:
Sahih Bukhari wrote:Fighting for the Cause of Allah (Jihaad) - Volume 4 - Book 52:
110. Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Umar:

I heard the Prophet saying. "Evil omen is in three things: The horse, the woman and the house."
Sahih Bukhari wrote:Fighting for the Cause of Allah (Jihaad) - Volume 4 - Book 52:
111. Narrated Sahl bin Sad Saidi:

Allah's Apostle said "If there is any evil omen in anything, then it is in the woman, the horse and the house."

yes ,, but you misunderstood the hadith

will ,, every body likes money and women so mohammed peace be upon him told us to take care
not to forget our religion for money and women

for example no,1 :

you may kill some body to take his money or may you leave the pray time to sell your goods

for example no,2 :

if you love your wife very much and she asked you to stay with her not to go to mosque to pray , you may stay and leave the pray time

so money and women maybe evil

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I don't wear a hijab, but I am usually covered from neck to toe in jeans and shirts. I don't work in clubs or strip for money, and I am not sexually promiscuous. Am I a whore?
''''What I am is good enough if I can only be it openly.''''

''''The man said "why you think you here?" I said "I got no idea".''''

''''Je viens comme un chat
Par la nuit si noire.
Tu attends, et je tombe
Dans tes ailes blanches,
Et je vole,
Et je coule
Comme une plume.''''

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Fallibleone
I don't wear a hijab, but I am usually covered from neck to toe in jeans and shirts. I don't work in clubs or strip for money, and I am not sexually promiscuous. Am I a whore?
no you are not whore also i do not even know if you muslim or disbeliever
if you muslim i can tell you what you must be

will i know you disbeliever so i,ll tell you some thing
if you had sex with any body but your husband you will be in the world of whores

what ever you are what ever you do if you not believe in allah and mohammed you will be disbeliever and may allah put you in hell with no end just forever

so embrace islam and follow the orders allah will save you from hell and take you to the heaven also allah will talk to you alone and ask you to ask him about any thing you want in paradise
also you will visit mohammed and all of his partner
you will see your friends in hell (just disbelievers) and they will ask you to give them a little water and you will help them and give them some water but the water will convert to be hell in their faces then you will say i am sorry i can not help you because you were disbelievers after that you will forget them forever
because you have so many things in paradise

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Question - have you actually read any of my posts? If you have, you should be under no illusions as to my beliefs.
will i know you disbeliever so i,ll tell you some thing
if you had sex with any body but your husband you will be in the world of whores
What would a man be if he had sex with anybody but his wife?
what ever you are what ever you do if you not believe in allah and mohammed you will be disbeliever and may allah put you in hell with no end just forever
Do you know, I can even manage to accept that someone who wishes me in Hell for eternity is a valuable, worthwhile human being.

so embrace islam and follow the orders allah will save you from hell and take you to the heaven also allah will talk to you alone and ask you to ask him about any thing you want in paradise
also you will visit mohammed and all of his partner
you will see your friends in hell (just disbelievers) and they will ask you to give them a little water and you will help them and give them some water but the water will convert to be hell in their faces then you will say i am sorry i can not help you because you were disbelievers after that you will forgive them forever
because you have so many things in paradise
I see you have visited Paradise a lot, because you know so much about what goes on there. How did that happen? Are you reincarnated? No wait, that's Buddhism. So how do you know so much about Paradise? Oh I know! You read about it.
''''What I am is good enough if I can only be it openly.''''

''''The man said "why you think you here?" I said "I got no idea".''''

''''Je viens comme un chat
Par la nuit si noire.
Tu attends, et je tombe
Dans tes ailes blanches,
Et je vole,
Et je coule
Comme une plume.''''

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