Once Convinced, How are you doing my brother. I ran across this post today on another site (A UB discussion site) and I wondered what you might think of it. I believe Jeff had romantic relationship with a women, and he wanted to get married and she didn't. So that's the context coming into this post.
I was curious as to what you think about the excerpts concerning marraige and relationships? Do they make any sence to you?
Thanks my friend. Have a great day today. You too Z and all here
Jeff wrote:
If a middleaged man and woman were not planning to raise a family but wanted to be together for the rest of their lives, according to the UB would there be any need for them to get married?
Love to all,
Jeff
Here’s a few excerpts Jeff. You might find where in the scenario you present Marriage
may not necessarily be needed as for procreation of for fostering a home with children., There may be other values a Marriage relationship that could make it desirable to two middle-aged people to enter into that type of relationship.
P.311 - §5 3.
The Union of Souls. Completing the triune staff of attachment to the Perfectors of Wisdom,
are these reflectors of the ideals and status of ethical relationships. Of all the problems in the universe requiring an exercise of the consummate wisdom of experience and adaptability,
none are more important than those arising out of the relationships and associations of intelligent beings. Whether in human associations of commerce and trade,
friendship and marriage, or in the liaisons of the angelic hosts, there continue to arise petty frictions, minor misunderstandings too trivial even to engage the attention of conciliators but sufficiently irritating and disturbing to mar the smooth working of the universe if they were allowed to multiply and continue.
P.369 - §1 After this pledge of subordination by the Creative Mother Spirit, Michael of Nebadon nobly acknowledged his eternal dependence on his Spirit companion, constituting the Spirit coruler of his universe domains and requiring all their creatures to pledge themselves in loyalty to the Spirit as they had to the Son; and there issued and went forth the final "Proclamation of Equality." Though he was the sovereign of this local universe, the Son published to the worlds the fact of the Spirit's equality with him in all endowments of personality and attributes of divine character.
And this becomes the transcendent pattern for the family organization and government of even the lowly creatures of the worlds of space. This is, in deed and in truth, the high ideal of the family and the human institution of
voluntary marriage.
P.419 - §2 Though seraphim are very affectionate and sympathetic beings, they are not sex-emotion creatures. They are
much as you will be on the mansion worlds, where you will "neither marry nor be given in marriage but will be as the angels of heaven." For all who "shall be accounted worthy to attain the mansion worlds
neither marry nor are given in marriage; neither do they die any more, for they are equal to the angels." Nevertheless, in dealing with sex creatures it is our custom to speak of those beings of more direct descent from the Father and the Son as the sons of God, while referring to the children of the Spirit as the daughters of God. Angels are, therefore, commonly designated by feminine pronouns on the sex planets.
P.835 - §2 The average age of betrothal was eighteen, and these youths then
entered upon a two years' course of instruction in preparation for the assumption of marital responsibilities. At twenty they were eligible for marriage; and
after marriage they began their lifework or entered upon special preparation therefor.
P.812 - §1 Marriage and divorce laws are uniform throughout the nation. Marriage before twenty--the age of civil enfranchisement--is not permitted. Permission to marry is only granted after one year's notice of intention, and after both bride and groom present certificates showing that they have been duly instructed in the parental schools regarding
the responsibilities of married life.
P.812 - §2 Divorce regulations are somewhat lax, but decrees of separation, issued by the parental courts, may not be had until one year after application therefor has been recorded, and the year on this planet is considerably longer than on Urantia. Notwithstanding their easy divorce laws, the present rate of divorces
is only one tenth that of the civilized races of Urantia.
P.913 - §1 Marriage--mating--grows out of bisexuality. Marriage is man's reactional adjustment to such bisexuality, while the family life is the sum total resulting from all such evolutionary and adaptative adjustments. Marriage is enduring; it is not inherent in biologic evolution,
but it is the basis of all social evolution and is therefore certain of continued existence in some form. Marriage has given mankind the home, and the home is the crowning glory of the whole long and arduous evolutionary struggle.
P.913 - §4 Notwithstanding the personality gulf between men and women, the sex urge is sufficient to insure their coming together for the reproduction of the species. This instinct operated effectively long before humans experienced much of what was later called love, devotion, and marital loyalty. Mating is an innate propensity, and
marriage is its evolutionary social repercussion.
P.915 - §4
Marriage is the institutional response of the social organism to the ever-present biologic tension of man's unremitting urge to reproduction--self-propagation. Mating is universally natural, and as society evolved from the simple to the complex, there was a corresponding evolution of the mating mores, the genesis of the marital institution. Wherever social evolution has progressed to the stage at which mores are generated,
marriage will be found as an evolving institution.
P.922 - §7 The family, which grows out of marriage, is itself a stabilizer of the marriage institution together with the property mores.
Other potent factors in marriage stability are pride, vanity, chivalry, duty, and religious convictions. But while marriages may be approved or disapproved on high, they are hardly made in heaven. The human family is a distinctly human institution, an evolutionary development. Marriage is an institution of society, not a department of the church. True, religion should mightily influence it but should not undertake exclusively to control and regulate it.
P.922 - §8 Primitive marriage was primarily industrial; and even in modern times it is often a social or business affair. Through the influence of the mixture of the Andite stock and as a result of the mores of advancing civilization,
marriage is slowly becoming mutual, romantic, parental, poetical, affectionate, ethical, and even idealistic.
P.1776 - §0 character. Character is something more than mere mind and morals.
Of all social relations calculated to develop character, the most effective and ideal is the affectionate and understanding friendship of man and woman in the mutual embrace of intelligent wedlock. Marriage, with its manifold relations, is best designed to draw forth those precious impulses and those higher motives which are indispensable to the development of a strong character. I do not hesitate thus to glorify family life, for your Master has wisely chosen the father-child relationship as the very cornerstone of this new gospel of the kingdom. And such a matchless community of relationship,
man and woman in the fond embrace of the highest ideals of time, is so valuable and satisfying an experience that it is worth any price, any sacrifice, requisite for its possession.
P.1777 - §1 I repeat, such inspiring and ennobling association
finds its ideal possibilities in the human marriage relation. True, much is attained out of marriage, and many, many marriages utterly fail to produce these moral and spiritual fruits. Too many times marriage is entered by those who seek other values which are lower than these superior accompaniments of human maturity. Ideal marriage must be founded on something more stable than the fluctuations of sentiment and the fickleness of mere sex attraction;
it must be based on genuine and mutual personal devotion. And thus, if you can build up such trustworthy and effective small units of human association,
when these are assembled in the aggregate, the world will behold a great and glorified social structure, the civilization of mortal maturity. Such a race might begin to realize something of your Master's ideal of "peace on earth and good will among men." While such a society would not be perfect or entirely free from evil, it would at least approach the stabilization of maturity.
Anyway Jeff I hope you enjoy some of those excerpts. I believe relationships were designed to be Divine. And in relationships we act in the image of God. Like the Creator Son and Mother Spirit in prefect unison and complementary action co-creating a universe. A man and a women represent the potential of acting in the form of the Complimentary Natures of Our Mother Spirit and Creator Son as well as The joint creativity of the Divine Trinity.
Peace be with you Jeff, and ALL here.

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