Note that when it comes to the colonization of our galaxy it would take only one ETC (extraterrestrial civilization) to pull it off. So offering an explanation such as "they blow themselves up before they embark on a program of colonization" wouldn't be particularly convincing as it would have to be something that got in the way of all ETC's ambitions.[T]he apparent contradiction between high estimates of the probability of the existence of extraterrestrial civilizations and the lack of evidence for, or contact with, such civilizations.
The extreme age of the universe and its vast number of stars suggest that if the Earth is typical, extraterrestrial life should be common. Discussing this proposition with colleagues over lunch in 1950, the physicist Enrico Fermi asked: "Where are they?"
Colonization seems to be a reasonable expectation as life appears to spread wherever resources permit. Various estimates range from around one to ten million years for a wave of colonization to sweep throughout the galaxy -- based on propulsion systems consistent with known physics. Although long in terms of a civilization, this kind of time-scale is nothing in terms of the age of the universe and is within the span of many of our own terrestrial species.
So, given the conservative estimate that conditions in the universe were amenable to life some 3 billion years before us (Livio 1999) we might expect ETC's to have expanded into every conceivable niche, or at least have left evidence of such an expansion behind by now.
Question for debate: Where are they?